hey i wanted to know where can i find a rim with a big flat lip on it

I think you need to be a little more broad--you are being way to detailed and specific in your quest for a rim. Live a little!

Seriously--mabye you should grab a current issue of any import car magazine--they will have many pictures that you can choose from. Just pick whichever one you like, based on design, and I'm sure we could better help you then.

Here's one for ya!

http://sr20.hybrids.jp/andy_c/Rims/18x13_Volk_GTN_02.JPG