Okay, I want a moderate drop so I think I will be going with TEINs for springs.
I need help on wheels though, I wanna go 18's but I have two kids still in infant seats that will be riding with me every weekday morning ont he way to daycare. Would it be better to go 17's, I'm a young dad that wants to cruise in style, but don't want my kids to suffer from any bumps and bruises. :P Any input would be greatly appreciated.

Anyone????

You're going to want 16s or 17s if you want to give your youngins a smoother ride. Tien High Techs are a good way to go, as they give you a moderate drop and a smooth ride. You may want to consider performance shock/struts to prevent the car from bouncing around all over the place.

17's. 18's for such a small car is already over doing it for me.

16's would be nice compromise in terms of looks and smoother ride with Htechs springs imo.

16" or 17" max, even seveteens are pushing it some. Stech is a good
moderate spring, but so is Tanabe NF210. The NF's (Normal Feel) will
help with the ride roughness. They are a 1.7 front and 1.2 back drop
with liftime warranty. I have them and cant tell the diff from stock.

18s on Stechs are fine also.

^^ and they look goooooddd, but you will probably take a MPG hit.