I spend more time waiting for pages to load than I do reading or posting on it. What can be done?? I belong to many forums and this is the only one I have trouble with???

Server is too weak for all of the people who visit this site.

Funny you should complain about that. Last month we launched a second server, dedicated to the processing of SQL queries to relieve the web server. This morning we launched a third server just for processing our advertising banners and stats, again to relieve the load on the web server. Tomorrow the web server should be fully independent of the ad processing script and hopefully we'll see a speed increase.