Ok, my long story has been posted. But, I have question, they said the wheels they ordered needed a spacer in the back, but I looked and cannot see, but in the front it looks like there is one? Should I be able to see a spacer? And if they did put spacers up front, what is the downside?

yes u should be able to see the spacers

ask for the wheel/tire size so we can determine if they bought the wrong wheels for ya

The wheels are Konig Prophets, 17 x 7.5

just take the wheel off.. the spacer is behind it.

exactly.. easy as A B C