hiram
09-13-2006, 03:10 AM
im not sure i wanna get myself into a long distance relationship, hear so many negative things about them... anyone had any experience with one? this would be my first
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View Full Version : whos been in a long distance relationship?? iheartzombies 09-13-2006, 06:26 AM Ive always been agianst them. Then again Im a super jealous person because of past experiences. Just seems too easy for them tog et away with anything. Skeorx13 09-13-2006, 03:13 PM If you want a long distance relationship, get a girl on the side that's close distance. Trust me, the long dist girl will be doing guys in the bar bathroom while telling you how much she loves you from 500+miles away. Just think of it as someone who occassionally might drop in to visit for a quickie. Don't put your heart into it. scootch 09-13-2006, 04:20 PM maybe it will be like cory and topanga and she will come back from pittsburg!! paul_mnly 09-13-2006, 04:23 PM :love: singing ( Love is in the air) dachmo 09-13-2006, 05:04 PM how far are we talking? Rabid_Lemming 09-13-2006, 05:14 PM They are very difficult, especially at your age. I had a long distance at 20, and it was rough. The things to take into consideration is as follows: 1. Will you be able to afford seeing her every month? 2. Will you be able to trust each other (if this is a no, a maybe, or you are a very jealous individual, let it go for now...the dark thoughts that will run through your mind will just make you miserable and angry) 3. Is she worth the agony? (Understand that when you care for someone deeply, being apart from them is an emotional load. Aside from the intimate aspects of a relationship, you will find yourself hating couples around you for the simple reason that they can actually hug or hold hands) If, after some thoughts to these factors, you came up with three yeses, then by all means go for it. My long distance relationship laster for 2 years, and to this day, I have become pretty good friends with her. Whichever way you go with this, don't look back. Don't live with regrets and what ifs, just live knowing you did the best you could. tC4italy 09-13-2006, 05:25 PM They are very difficult, especially at your age. I had a long distance at 20, and it was rough. The things to take into consideration is as follows: 1. Will you be able to afford seeing her every month? 2. Will you be able to trust each other (if this is a no, a maybe, or you are a very jealous individual, let it go for now...the dark thoughts that will run through your mind will just make you miserable and angry) 3. Is she worth the agony? (Understand that when you care for someone deeply, being apart from them is an emotional load. Aside from the intimate aspects of a relationship, you will find yourself hating couples around you for the simple reason that they can actually hug or hold hands) If, after some thoughts to these factors, you came up with three yeses, then by all means go for it. My long distance relationship laster for 2 years, and to this day, I have become pretty good friends with her. Whichever way you go with this, don't look back. Don't live with regrets and what ifs, just live knowing you did the best you could. Hiram, love, this man right here is giving you the best advice we can talk some more about it on MSN :wink: BLAKOUT 09-13-2006, 06:56 PM At your age I would say that a LDR is a bad idea. You've got plenty of time to find someone else and women your age can not be trusted. I did have a LDR that worked, my now husband and I were long distance (Minneapolis to West Palm Beach) for several months, but it was not easy. |
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