I got my dad to let me get lowering springs, but i cant decide inbetween the trd and H&R sport springs... The TRD is a lil higher than i want, but i dont really know anything about the H&R springs... i have seen pics and i do like the drop it has, but i need to know how much wheel gap i will have... like i am looking for a 2 finger wheel gap in both the front and rear... are these the ones?

 

Both TRD and H&R will get you in the ballpark (give or take less than a 1/4"). Knowing how hard you've worked to convince your Dad to let you buy the springs however, my suggestion is to go with TRD so they'll be part of the car's warranty.