SO MY GIRLFRIEND KEEPS TABS ON ME READING EVERYTHING THAT IS GOING ON IN THIS FORUM.. SHE OBVIOUSLY HAS A TRUST ISSUE.. SO EVERYONE WHO KNOWS ME ON HERE PLEASE PROVE TO MY GIRLFRIEND THAT IM A HONEST PERSON. THANKS I APPRECIATE IT.

 

Trust is a huge part of a relationship. If you don't have it, what do you have?

 

The only thing I'm willing to say is keep your relationship drama off the forums.

 

Don is a good guy and you don't have to worry about nothing. I was with him almost the whole time and all we did was have fun. Went to the casino the first day and the second day was filled with only the Scion party.

If you are jealous/mistrusting him for no reason, maybe you should reevaluate your relationship. Like Jenna says, "trust is a huge part of a relationship" maybe you're not ready for one yet.

 

i'm guessing she saw the pictures from the party and you dancing...

i may not know you well.. but a can speak for relationships. keeping tabs on each other can be fine and curiousity is normal, however there comes a point where it is crossing the line.

for the most part, certain things you may find or see are just that... the true story about it isn't really part of those pictures...

the saying "a picture is worth a thousand words"? well it applies sure.. but one should not make judgement as sometimes those words are not completely defined.

it takes trust between both individuals in a relationship to make things work. if something is questionable... you question. if you still believe the other party is lying.. that's where you need to re-evaluate your relationship.

trust is key. without it.. you have nothing.

do try to keep drama off the forums though, please.

 

Agreed. Please try to keep non-Scion topics in the correct places, a Scion forum is not one of 'em.

That and try not to use caps like that...

And what everybody else has been saying. Trust is key in a relationship. Without it, it won't work.

 

thats for sure.... doesn't dr ruth have a forum out there to post on....

or try dr phil....

 

code 5.. clinger lol (wedding crasher) lol

 

Dude, you gotta work it out with your girlfriend. We can't tell her what you did or didn't do in Miami. If she doesn't believe you, she's definitely not going to believe us. I hope everything works out for the best for the both of you.

And PS to everyone else - If you don't want to read about drama on the boards, then don't post in this thread. Simple as that. The guy needed some help or advice and thought maybe we could be of service. I don't see why thats such a bad thing.

 

Good luck bro....hope things will work out for you. I'm not sure that she will believe us no matter what we say here. She has to start trusting unless you've done something in the past that made her like this.

 

i think i saw him look at my butt....

 

EVIL!!

 

Oh the things that went on behind close doors.... jk. everyone at miami was there to have fun.. not hook up. dont worry!

 

If your gf reads all your posts and what not, that's fine. It's an issue she is dealing with and what you have to do is continually let her know that you are on here for the specific reason of chating about your car and stuff about automobiles. DO NOT LIE TO HER AT ALL!

Not sure about the pics from Miami, haven't seen them, but if you were dancing with girls and you were all over them, then she shouldn't be checking your posts...she should have ripped you a new a$$hole. If things were just friendly and you know that nothing did or ever will come out of what went on in Miami, be honest with her and sit her down and talk about everything that went on.

It's weird that she has to check up on your posts all the time, but it may be something that has her unsettled in your relationship or maybe something from her past relationships. I've dealt with many of my gfs past issues b/c all her other bfs were completely a$$ wipes. They all cheated on her so now I have to be extra loving with her. You know what though..............it's worth it! I have her and wouldn't trade her for anyone else.

Make your gf feel special, although you are probobly saying you already do, by continually reassuring her that you're on here just to talk and that's it. Nothing will come out of anything on here.

 

agreed. i mean, he posted in "Off-topic" so i dont see what the big deal is.

1 of 2 things needs to happen here:

1 - she needs to learn how to trust you.....
-or-
2 - you've given her reason to not trust you, so you'll need to reassure her.

 

I 2nd that. Not something you want to get going in public. If she has trust issues, deal with it IN DA HOUSE.

 

OK... Simple and plain, you can only say what went on down there from your point of view. If you know you didn't do anything to jeapordize your relationship in Miami and she still doesn't believe you, then the issue was never with a short 72 hours in Florida, it goes farther back then that.

You 2 need to talk about it and see why she's so insecure about things. Hell I've had several pictures taken with me in clubs, outside, and all over with pretty girls-- I'm a photographer, and that's what I do for a living! I've had break ups concerning this very issue because of their insecurities.

My bottom line was I wasn't about to sacrifice my career, friendships, and sanity for someone else's trust issues and unwillingness to deal with them.

 

Would you trade her for the new xD?

 

haha, nope...........nothing...................not even a Ferrari........... ......she is a keeper.

 

I agree. He did try to post this in a section where any post is fair game. We just have mods whom really, really like moving posts, lol.