So these springs are described as two tight coiled on bottom and top,and two tight coiled on the bottom and wide on the top. Which are the rear and which are the front?

The larger springs are the fronts. The smaller ones with the tight (dead) coils go in back... what springs are they?

If you look at the stock springs, it'll make sense.

they are tenzo r. bought them off a buddy who had his xA repoed

Here's an old set of H.Techs...
http://i133.photobucket.com/albums/q44/burstaneurysm/IMG_2443.jpg
The spring on the left is the front and the spring on the right is the rear.

that was soooooooooooo ridiculously helpful.