trying not to roll fenders already 0 gap with 17x7.5 offset 48 with 225/45/17


which is the best choice.

Miro 279 (Silver)

18x8 offset 35 with 225/40/18


or
18x9 offset 40 with 225/10/18



or


XXR 522 (Gold)

17x9 offset 42
or
18x8.5 offset 48

I'm no expert but I think all of your choices would push the wheels out further than your current setup.

And for the ride height. Do you have coils? can't you just adjust them?

What tire size do you plan to put on the XXRs?

Edited: oops! sry. i didnt see the poll choices