[i'm just venting].

still hang with the ex everyday.

like this other chick,
things happened, yada yada yada.

ex gives me poop
for finding out i even
talk, text and hang out with another person.
[mainly her because she's jealous and told
me not to talk to her, even if we're broken up].

ugh.


[/end vent]

 

 

ditch her for good man...

all my ex's are long gone and i never see 'em again!

 

yeah man.
it's not that easy but it'll happen. [just don't know when]

she's moving
in her new dorm next semester
so i think that will set it off. thanks bro.

 

well it will hurt if u are still seeing your ex
just be friends but hanging out everyday is too much...

 

been here done that, its not worth it...find someone new homie, trust! hope all works well bro, just keep in mind ex's = drama fasho

 

PWNED! :D


"hanging out"(lol) every day?

doesnt sound like an ex to me

 

Always remember, it's always easier to "do" her before you ditch her for good.

 

become friends also do-able lol

 

yo, dont know you but mixing your ex with the current girl you hang out with is like playing with fire. Well....who broke up with who? Also been there done that, girls are haters within there own. lol.

 

i understand what ya'll are saying.

thanks.

as for 'playing with fire'...

check this:

reason why my ex is
livid with my friend is because
they went to school together during
middle and some high school...

and my ex expects me
not to like her [even as a friend] because
she doesnt. since it's the other way around...im in the hole.


----

i honestly didn't like my friend's past
[before i even met her]...from what i heard.

things happened in 2 years and she changed.

now... her ways, style, looks
has totally flipped around [in a good way]
and that's why i'm attached and stuck in the middle.

 

i mean, damn...
are girls like that or just the ex?

i'm not supposed to be affliated
with someone she doesn't like? wtf.



----


i'm not trying to
make my ex look bad because
she has her reason why i'm 'always in the hot seat'.


2 years ago she broke up
with me. told me to go find someone else, etc...

i didn't want to but randomly
i met someone new and things happened...

ex found out and got
pi$$ed because i listened to
her 'advice' but that's not what she really wanted.



ehhhhhh.

 

arite homie, you have to realize you keep saying "ex" in your posts, she's your "ex", i understand its tough to balance between friends and love life, but dude, she shouldn't be top priority any more because you guys aren't even dating. If YOU want to be friends with the other chick, then do it! Don't let your ex, or anyone for that matter, stop you from being friends with who you want to be. I won't be the first to tell you that its HARD to stay friends with your ex, trust me i've tried, and to answer your question, from my experience, ex's + other girls (any other girl) that you could be interested in, is just a bad sign altogether. So my advice to you is to tell your ex that this is the way its going to be, and if she doesn't like it, then sucks for her. If i were you, my ultimate decision would be to stop chillin with your ex completely and just chilln.

 

Did I read in there that she dumped you 2 years ago?

This is what you do.

 

damn Wes, when did you become the Dr Phil of Scion Owners. lol. Im going to come to you with my problems w/ Nicole from now on. thanks kuya.

 

got you easily beat.

I work with my ex wife. this evil crazy, plays games with my child's custody b!tch, and shes sits 15 feet from my desk. If she feels like dicking me around, all she has to do, and does do on a near weekly basis, is come cry at my desk calling me a deadbeat in front of my co-workers.

why don't I get another job? well anyone know of one?

 

omg, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I know someone also in your same position and its not fun.

 

This isn't a competition. Or at least I don't think it is. But why would that stop you from putting this in here? Make no mistake, I feel for you and your child because thats a crappy situation that hits close to home, but wrong place.

 

What Wes said. But yeah Zach, she's your EX, she can't tell you who or you not to chill with. So you might as well as break off your friendship with her unless you want her to control your life from now on.

 

i disagree, i'm not trying to beat anyone. I'm trying to share my experience that says, "you think it's tough dealing with your ex, well here's how it could be worse, be grateful". That can make you feel better.

I've had guy friends of mine, talk about their relationships breaking up. I remind them they don't have kids, and that usually makes people feel better.

this standup comedian i saw said.
"When I got married, I thought "shoot, now I'm trapped and I can't leave.""
"Then I had kids, and thought "shoot i was only married, I could have left, now I really am trapped""

it's all about perspective.
Next time you're hungry, think of starving kids. it'll make you feel better.
Next time you think you're poor, think of the 99% rest of the world's population.

Anytime I try and feel down on myself, I think of how my situation could be worse, and that makes me feel alot better about my situation.