Well yeah... coz in a few years, the car will be paid for......

 

Too true!

 

thanks a lot guys, you guys are like bros.

and so cal tC, I just washed the car today. haha kinda got my mind off stuff. I even forgot I had this post.

And for those who are saying to hang out with your friends, I think that really works the best. I just went out with them yesterday to the movies and we were just messing around having a good time. I wish those kind of days would never end with my friends and I wish that I could spend more time with them. Right when I get home and try to sleep I couldnt even sleep and when I wake up, I am really tired. Maybe its because I do too much thinking and I hold too much regrets. And for those who say to try to find a hobby... maybe fishing? haha I dont know. I want to go fishing again since its summer and I havnt gone fishing for like 2 years. and oh yeah, maybe working out this summer if I ever get the chance cause im getting out of shape.

 

hey don't forget about a lil sis

 

Dude, not to sound like a meathead or anything, but try going to a gym.
You would be surprised on how much this can help your state of mind..... not to mention your health. I was hesitant to go at first, but now that I have made it a part of my routine, I sleep better, feel better.... you get the point.

 

of course not :D

 

I understand you matt. I did go to the gym for a week with a friend but I had to stop since I had to go back to school being a full time student and all that.

 

I hear ya. Its hard to find the time. I can attest to that.
Head up kidd!!!

 

i ususally go out for spirited drives when i cant get stuff like that out of my mind. i find an empty road and drive for an hour or two. sure it tkaes a toll on the gas but since you dont to deal with her anymore, it shouldnt be a problem

 

i dont know u, and i dont mean to butt in, but...

time, and hitting things, preferably nothing that will get you a lawsuit or jail time, like a punching bag, that really help

i took brazilian jujitsu, really helps, did it like 5-6 times a week at first, now i do it that much cuse im just hooked on it

 

bleah my ex is brazilian! hopefully the girl for him isn't from there cos it wouldn't be much fun

why do u all say that gf cost a lot? i bought my ex everything from food to clothes to xbox so i have no idea why there is this stereotype

 

i was married to the the love of my life, whole romantic story, she was my first gf, virginity etc, we lost eachother till after highschool, she stumbled into my store, etc etc....we got married, for 2 months, and i caught her with her other ex, what i did, was for the first few days, listen to sad songs and remember the good times, and get all the tears and sadness out, then i made sure that i always had at least 1 friend with me, and hobbies are always good, come up with a new mod for your scion....thats what i did. i still miss her, thatll never go away, its just about learning how to focus on other aspects of your life

 

ahhh yes, JDMbb brought up my other passion, go for a drive, make sure your in the correct state of mind tho, ive driven when i was hysterical, or intoxicated, and thats REALLY stupid, but cruisin really makes you feel better too

 

i got a second job.....

 

i didnt mean it like that. relationships can tend to get expensive for both of the partners. even if you share costs, its still money in the end. now since u r free and dont really have to spend that money in the relationship, you have funds to go towards your spirited drives. sorry if it offended you

 

damn, in the same situation man.

driving usually takes a lot
off my mind. i just started to
read "don't sweat the small stuff in love"
book. it's hard to stop reading it.

besides that, it's hard to motivate
myself. i can go out with some friends,
the mall, gym, blah blah blah...

but in the end, i still got it bad.
i just end up depressing myself.



if you know she's worth it, keep trying man.
good luck

 

oh all right then it that case i agree with u
thnx for being a gentleman about it

 

2tone....thats exactly how i feel, you explained that perfectly

 

it sucks bro.
it sucks for her to admit
that she takes me for granted.

won't spill my guts and info
here but 4 years is a lot. how
can that just get 'flushed down the toilet'?

usher - 'you got it bad'...that's it.

 

ya, fosho man, if u wanna trade stories pm me, im open about stuff...its always good to vent