or save that money into a retirement fund better start saving now

 

When I got divorced I threw myself into work, that didnt help, so I quit my job moved back to Guam and did a whole ton of scuba diving. You gotta find that one thing that relaxes you that makes everything else in the world just fall away.

And while I know nobody wants to hear it the best thing will be time. I'm sorry your hurtin

 

true on the hobbies.

slow yet surely for the xB.

i'm a mall rat, so it helps doing my thing there
but makes a bigger hole in the pocket. hah, blah.

i honestly try to look at the bright side
of things. i know this is little stuff compaired to
lots of other people & what going around in diff. places.

Orlando Magic - yup, doing great this year!
i actually work for the Ritz Carlton, so i was
lucky to see Kevin Garnett the day after their loss.
weird that you brought that up.

trying to transfer to be a General Accountant.
filled out the app, so we will see!

but thanks! especially on this day.


Adorian - hope things are better.

 

oh it's been a few years I'm substantially happier now and have found myself an amazing man.

It just took time.

 

smoke.

 

lol that's what I do. And the usual driving thing. Unfortunately my hobby is my car and my for now bf is in the car circle too.

Is she?

 

ah. i've been picking that up.
totally forgot i still have some sticks left.

[double wammy though].

her and cars? no way. i get **** all the time,
even randomly for my hood & pics on my page.

 

well at least you will have yr hobby and the friends that come with it if it goes for the worst. And you will be able to enjoy it because she wouldn't be involved in it.

;)

 

Rent Kingpin and wait for the part where he milks the 'cow'. That stuff'd make you laugh at a funeral.

 

1- drive
2- smoke (your choice...but I'd stay away from crack and heroine)
3- take out your emotions on a punching bag. beating the crap out of inanimate objects usually helps me
4- drink....can make yoiu feel worse though

 

I smoke lots n lots of weed. Ill drink sometimes though, but that just makes me either horny or angry. so I usually just stick to weed. Im sorry ur hurting.

if it makes you feel any better..

I've been waiting for my GF to come back from Japan for almost 3 years.. and Ive only seen her like 4 times throughout that timespan. I die everyday.

 

You're in a relationship with someone who is 1000s of miles away and you've only seen a handfull of times in 3 years? That sucks. Must be some voodoo punani.

 

its so cute and refreshing to hear or see guys openly talking about their relationship problems. I'm not perfect... my man and I fight about something all the time. Here's what I keep trying to remember... men are simple and they say what they mean. Women over analyze everything. If you give a woman a slight reason to think about something, its going to turn into something big if its given enough time. I TRY not to let that happen, but I'm guilty of it. Just remember that just because you don't see the mountain out of the mole hill doesn't mean the woman doesn't. It doesn't really signify that you have done anything wrong, I think it has something to do with estrogen. I'd say stay away from drinking, it only makes you feel worse and it makes you dwell on the bad stuff. I usually go for the "herbal" remedies. Lots of peace for the mind. Read a book. Go for a run. Knit something. OK, that's what I do. I don't expect you to take up knitting. BUT get your mind moving. Good luck. I'm an "old broad" so if you need to talk about anything, I'm more than happy to listen and tell you what I think from a womans stand point.

 

y'kno zack, i was wonderin' why you had that stoagie in your hand at the last lolicup meet.

man one hobby that i just picked up that gets my mind off anything, turntables. all i really listen to is electro house besides what i hear on the radio every now and then, and whenever i wanna get in a good mood, i just throw down a mix sesh, it passes the time, and its fun. each day i practice i feel myself gettin' better and better, so i know im deffinately spending my time (and money, djing isnt cheap!) well sharpening my skills and not having to worry bout some of the things in life that get us sidetracked and puts us in a position we dont wanna be in.

surfing is loads of fun too, but its a lil chilly in the waters this time of year.

 

Like somebody said earlier, I throw myself into work. 25 hours a week during school, 40+ whenever I get a vacation week, or I know I have a day off of school coming up, I request to work that day.

I don't have girl problems because I don't put myself into those situations, but legal problems at the moment that really get me down whenever I receive an update. I currently stand the risk of losing my license for a year minimum, and even in the best scenario, I will lose my license until I am 18, and my premium is STILL going to go up.
I learned that I am likely getting an FJ Cruiser next week, but before that, I didn't know if I would even get another car for months. That made me feel ____ty too. You just have to find something else to put your mind to, as said before.