You know its pretty ____ty when a car club goes sour all because of personal beef, i mean what the hell every happen to "this club is a family and thats how we treat people"??????!!! Im beyond tired of the BS, are "supposed" to be friends are VERY 2faced, long story short, there was a carshow that Tulsa Scikotics were supposed to judge and at first me and my fiance' volunteered when it first got posted and than i posted that we had stuff going on, no matter what we did doesnt matter, we have a life too and we do our share, there was a minor conflict and we still pulled thru and work it @ Asylum, its hard to communicate with people that want to act one way a day before and the next all 2 faced, would you want to be around people like that???!!??heres a little taste of what was said and happened and note that after he finished talking ____, he locked the thread so we couldnt even talk AND they keep EDITING and ERASING our posts, Friendly neighborhood scion my ___! There is definetly some personal issues in all this and now that its gotten this far, i could give a 2cents!! And they took the VMFIC from Clay which is really f'd up because if theres a problem than it should be solved as adults and you dont go and act all childish!! sorry everyone i needed to vent and im ____ed, input would be great!! XOXO


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We had a good turn out considering we could have all gone to the lake.Thanks Jyl, Toby, Andy, James, Jaquetta, Mikey, Brian, Oscar, Birthday Girl, Dickey, Jeremy and Alicia for standing the heat and representing well.



MY COMMENT:
Nice comment Jon (even know it WASNT necessary) anyways Good Job guys! Good Team work


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Originally Posted by BABE03
Sorry Guys we wont be able to make it, we are having a big issue with my car that needs to be resolved real quick and with my new job im worn out and plus Clays B is gettin ready for the carshow all next weekend. Good Luck and i hope you guys have a great time


Actually, that was the reason you gave for not being able to help out when your chapter needed you.
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^^^ which that was true


than:

MY COMMENT:
Im not even going to get into a deep discussion, point being, we have alot of ____ going on (as you can tell) if we were available than point blank we would have been there. Theres no reason to get all uptight with us, We pull great on our end when you let us

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I had to work and that was my fault but I actually made it about 1:00 after being in an attic..but I still made it to support the club. This is not the first time that this type of thing has happened..but it is the last.
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Than he locked the thread[/b]

 

yeah, i was the hmfic up here, and i left because of drama (people wanted my position) . 2faced people suck ___.

lets start our own club ;) lol

 

Lol no joke! We are working on starting Scinergy of Oklahoma! They lost 2 great people that's for sure

 

I know how important a car club is to people, and its important to me to. but there is no way i would put it before my friends and family! people get so caught up in the car club scene and forget whats really important in life! Believe me... i know 1st hand.. and now that i put my life back in order and have my priorities where i want them, other members in the club look down on my Fiance and I. I should have probably stepped down from the VMFIC chair awhile back, but this chapter doesn't do ____ together. the last time we had a dam meet was who knows when! we had a picnic months ago, and hardly anyone showed up... but Crystal and I were there.
This chapter has gone off the handle with members (not all of them) being very rude, two faced, and just flat out wrong about Crystal and I. Yeah.. I went to the lake the day that our chapter judged a car show... there were plenty of people there to judge the show. My reason for not going is simple, and i told them that, yet they twist ____ around, and pick me out of the entire chapter that didn't go to the show. I am singled out (with my fiance) and then told that its not personal! i tried to give my input on this whole situation, but my posts, and threads either get edited, or deleted to make "other" people look big and tuff, and good to the rest of the members on the forum! I am leaving the club bc its unorganized, and i refuse to be singled out like mr HMFIC has done to Crystal and I. I will not be around people that steal our ideas, talk ____ behind my back and then pm me and say "we still want to friends with you guys"... get real!

 

i hear ya clay, that is almost identical to what happened up here... they wanted the power, and edited my posts (or deleted them) they never talked to me about any of the problems they had with me, instead, they went running to frankenscion and told him they wanted me to step down.
Its kinda weak they couldnt talk to me. Then they had the nerve to say "nothing personal" "we still want to be friends"
It sucks even more for me, because they were the only people i knew in mn since i moved here. So they screwed me hardcore just to be the ones in charge of a little car club (that has since gone downhill)

 

Is this thread your adult way of working this problem? Isn't there an entire Scikotic message board you could of put your copy and pastings on?

 

. Actually there was a post put up and it was erased and our posts were edited, as was said above. So its immature to erase them instead of making problems worse by not working it out and making rash decisions b4.talking together as a club

 

But dragging the drama here is a bit not-on-the-adult side.

However, I'm sorry to hear that your Scikotic's board is just as awful in the censorship department as this one is. They should have little invisible forums where the parties involved can go and hash things out. Once the drama has died down, the thread gets archived away and the forum disappears.

 

By all means, my intentions arent to bring drama over here, and the 2 people we're conflicting with our the ones editing & erasing our posts, so how are we supposed to express ourselves if it gets deleted? i dont think its fair that they make the ability to say what they want whether we like it or not than go mess with our posts when were simply trying to get our sides in, that in my case is very wrong and not handled well as a "club," situations like this need to be handled differently because not only did they loose good club members that DID pull on their part but they lost great friends but hey its all good because we do not need people like that in our lives, you know and it kinda sucks that one minute they act like theyre our best friends than talk $hit behind our back

 

there is no way you can say that JP and YOU KNOW IT. i never edited or deleted any of your posts at all. we talked to you on AT LEAST two occasions about yous stepping up and takin responsibility for the club. me and travis did all the work and you took the credit. then you and dahlia go and plan a secret meeting with the members behind our back. the KC chapter planned a meet just for you that jon was even in attendance for and you didnt show up. we talked to jon about it bc we didnt know what to do jp... we told you several times when we asked you to take more responsibility that it was nothing personal and that WE JUST WANTED HELP WITH RUNNING the chapter that YOU WERE IN CHARGE OF. and the chapter is going GREAT since you left... we have regular meets and have some great new members.

yeah try and back up your lies now jp... the truth is out

 

we did not plan a meeting behind your back, i didnt even plan a meeting, it was all dahlia's idea. it was supposed to be a meeting without ANY mfic (including myself) i had no part in it. You are correct, You never edited or deleted my posts, but travis had someone do it for him, since you cannot edit mine. I figured it wasnt doing anything because no one posts in the north forums anymore.

 

pretty much only use the north region to get new members who find it thorugh the web... we talk about everything mostly only on the mpls sciko forums

 

i was wondering why there were no meets. you guys should post meets on there too, for those "lurkers" who dont post and might want to show up.

 

i would more often for the smaller regular meets but its a PITA to update roll calls for two forums... but for larger unregular meets i still will be postin em here fo sho... but anyways about what was said b4 i would really appreciate it if you did not say things like that... i tried very hard to not have ou leave but since what happend did i would at least wish that you dont purpusly try and like tarnish us or something... i h=never had anything personal aginst you and i think that should show in how i have still talked to you and hng out with you since then

 

Wow you damn thread jackers lol jk, glad you 2 got that all out, see what a difference it does to talk? Sucks that we dropped out like we did but some people don't understand how important a friendship, a team or however you want to look at it, until there gone!

 

thanks... anyways... now what this original post was all about... you are clays signifigant other right boost? so can you explain to me what happend a bit more clearly? bc it seems that the issue that cuased all of this really was not all that big of a deal that got blown outa proportion... i hate to see people like you guys leave and if there is anything that i can do or say that may help let me know

 

. Long story short we said we were gonna help judge a car show that came to Tulsa and than I apologized for us not being able to go b4 the show happened, than the day before we went to a club members bridal/groom party several of the club members there and we explained to them we weren't going, nothing else said we were just a group of friends hanging out than the next day is when it all went down on the tulsa thread. I mean if you have a problem than the HMFIC *no names* should have been a man and said it to our face instead of being 2faced about the whole thing, he edited our posts, deleted them etc that's why I copied all the above bc if you go back to the thread you'll see everything was erased and all we did was explain ourself, completely SHADY. It really ____es me off, than he had the nerve to say "I'm replacing Clays VMFIC position! How low is that before just talking about the problem?!

 

ive met you guys in ames and asylum and im very sorry to see that this all happend... sometimes people do stupid shiz and things happen... i guess the only thing that could really help is if the H (batcom i think right?) were to like appologize and maby explain himself or something... i dunno

well good luck with what ever it is you plan to in the future... and please dont let what happend to you on account of one person spoil the image of scikotics as a whole... i still view everyone in my chapter and even in other chapters like iowa and chicago like brothers.... and pretty much everyone else in the entire club are like cuzins... and i dont want to have that sense of family go... its the best par tof the club

 

Cryatal pretty much nailed it! there is nothing anyone can say or do tobring us back on board with Scikotics! it just wont happen! I don't have a problem with other people in the club inb other cites or states, and i don't have a problem with the whole Tulsa chapter either, but this is where the club originated from. And for someone to know my story and know that i'm not going to be attending a show the day before the event and then turn around 2 days later and talk ____ on me.... thats where it stops! I'm sporting my "special" Scikotics sticker just to let people know how i feel!

 

i know how you feel man and like is said above im sorry to see you go... scikotics def lost a good member whos been there from the beginning from my understanding