If everyone turned on you?
If your whole life fell apart on you?
If you got $235 in Tickets from a dick cop?
If you found out that one of your car payments was never recieved?
If you put on a big car show, only to have everyone say it was great to your face, only to complain once they got home?

If all of these happened at once?

 

smoke a bowl?

 

I would possibly cry. Than confront the issues that i could. haha

 

i'd get in my car, take a nice drive while listening to my cowboy bebop soundtrack. now that the weather is warmed up, the windows would be down. go down some nice scenic roads, relax. go see a movie, then go to my favorite place to eat. order everything i want, make a pig of myself. by now i'd be gettig pretty sleepy. head home open up a cold one and sit on my deck looking out at the sky while petting my dog until i fell asleep contemplating what i have learned from all the things that have gone wrong think about what i an do to stop them from happening again.

errr...i mean be a man and just suck it up ya girl! lol.

 

First of all, take them one at a time. When you look at it as a big pile of crap that was all dumped on you at once, it seems harder to deal with. Start with the stuff you can actually do something about.

Ticket - If you deserved it, pay it and move on. If it really is a bogus fine, fight it in court.

Lost car payment - I assume you didn't send cash. If it was a check, stop payment and send another. That stuff happens.

As for the other stuff, I wouldn't let it get you down too much. Talk to people. Let them know if they ____ed you off. Be honest and calm. Most of that sort of thing will work it's self out. Good luck.

 

Get really, really hammered. I'm talking black out drunk. All problems go away while being smashed.

"Here's to alcohol, the cause of and solution to all life's problems"

-Homer Simpson

 

take out my anger and frustration by cleaning and polishing my toaster, followed by going to Concrete WA. and then have'n one of Annies Pizza's all to my self!

 

1. Deal with it, it can always get a lot worse.
2. Go to court and tell em you can't pay, they'll give you a huge discount.
3. Call Toyota and explain the situation, they'll always work with you.
4. F*CK EM! Who cares about some turncoat ****'s.


If you're tired of your life change it. Join the military and see the world for a couple years.

"Worrying is a lot like a rocking chair. It gives you something to do but doesn't get you anywhere."

 

and you'd get shot at too at the same time also makes it more enjoyable

what ever i'm too content to worry about it

just remember water on a ducks back

let go of the past grab and hang onto the future cause its gonna be one sweet ride!

 

Just go for a drive...

 

Nobody told him to join the infantry or be a SP. There's a whole slew of jobs that don't deploy.

 

Sounds like "LIFE" to me...lol....Things could be WAY worse than those things....

So...I just Suck it Up...and Deal w/ the Ticket Fine...then Just go on w/ this thing called LIFE?

 

Best answer yet! Do what he said.

 

A lot of people have already said it, but....

the deal with everyone turning against you and your life falling apart and the car show....let it go. People are very strange..they will tell you one thing and do another...learn who you can trust and keep them close to you.
As for the tickets, either pay them or fight them...not much choice to that.
The car payment..call the loan people and explain the situation, ask for an extension of one month, just pay the interest as a good faith sign. With the tickets, you might need the extra time.

Amd when it all happens at once, consider yourself lucky, it could be worse.

Good luck.