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Old Feb 13, 2008 | 02:20 AM
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Ya hope for the best. Hopefully one or two will stick. Like throwing m&ms into someones mouth lol
so yr sayin i should lick people and see who sticks?

I didn't tell you to lick anyone, I told you to throw m&ms at people
Old Feb 13, 2008 | 02:27 AM
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dont lick me, only 1 girl does that

awww spoil sports
Old Feb 13, 2008 | 02:28 AM
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Ya hope for the best. Hopefully one or two will stick. Like throwing m&ms into someones mouth lol
so yr sayin i should lick people and see who sticks?

I didn't tell you to lick anyone, I told you to throw m&ms at people
that makes it better lol
Old Feb 13, 2008 | 02:50 AM
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Originally Posted by tC4italy
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dont lick me, only 1 girl does that

awww spoil sports
haha yup :D

and she just told me the other day she wants to get old and wrinkly with me
Old Feb 13, 2008 | 02:54 AM
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awwwi thats cute


but i've heard that before and i dont believe in those words, call me bitter
Old Feb 13, 2008 | 02:57 AM
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well i think she said it because it sounded cute. plus if im anything like my dad i wont get wrinkled just scary lookin :D

p.s. my dads bad **** and scares all my friends :D

aka my dad can beat up your dad
Old Feb 13, 2008 | 06:52 AM
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I have a couple of distinct groups of friends. My super close friends I've known since highschool... going on 9 years or so.

Then I have the people I went to college with. I don't see them very often, but we have a blast when we do.

My Scion friends are great but I haven't known most of em for that long, but I'd still trust a few of em with my life.

Then there's all of you guys, whom, despite the fact that I've never met many of you, I still have fun wasting time with all of you.

My girlfriend's in her own special group :D

So yea, I guess what I'm trying to say is that all of my friends came to be by not really trying that hard. Shared situations tend to lend themselves to friendships.

Try to find like interests and place yourself near people who share those interests. Hell, the internet can be a great place too... a lot of people knock craigslist, but hell, sometimes things work out better than you might expect.

Good luck, C!
Old Feb 13, 2008 | 07:25 AM
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Big C, maybe you should get a pet.
Old Feb 13, 2008 | 12:24 PM
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I had to turtles, i dunno what happened to them they stayed with my ex
Old Feb 13, 2008 | 04:24 PM
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girl. I don't know why I'm replying because I have no real answer. I grew up an only child and I was kind of shy. I had a few really close friends, but I didn't really go out of my way to make any. Then I went off to college and I really only had a few friends and I only was around them for a few years. Then I got pregnant, MOVED AGAIN... and then I had no friends except for people I casually talked to at work and I made friends with one of my neighbors. She is STILL one of my best friends ever and I talk to her on the phone almost daily, but she moved to Hawaii. I just kept seeing her around and I started to joke with her one day and slowly but surely we became really good friends, we would do holidays together, the kids played. Aside from her, I have a friend named Patrick that I had worked with in NY and by some odd twist of fate, he lives in Raleigh, NC now too. I tried the gym. I even hung out with some customers that I hit it off with when I was in sales. I think the best way to meet someone is when its just a fluke. I don't think you can set off trying to force yourself to make friends. Friends just happen. My boyfriend and I met on myspace (LOL!) and I hang out with some of his friends. But really, I only have 2 friends. I'm happy with that.
Old Feb 13, 2008 | 05:40 PM
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Originally Posted by tC4italy
Having moved to different countries every 3 years while growing up, friendship always meant very little because I always knew they wouldn't last for more than 3 years. With that mentality I have never made "good" friends.

The ones I did make here when coming to the states are either all gone from the US back to their countries, or we don't keep in touch anymore.

The so called friends I have in the scion circle could not care less. When I need them there's always excuses of why they can't help out, and that's not friendship.

So please don't suggest going to scion meets/shows cos i already do.

So where can you make friends? Doing what?

I'm a very open person so I have no problems speaking up or starting conversations.

C.
you dont need friends. you have us!
Old Feb 13, 2008 | 05:41 PM
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yeah... but i want tangible friends
Old Feb 13, 2008 | 05:51 PM
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oh... im tangible
Old Mar 18, 2008 | 06:38 PM
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Old Mar 18, 2008 | 06:46 PM
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I think that whole tai chi class is a good way of meeting new people. def worth a shot :D
Old Mar 18, 2008 | 06:51 PM
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eh that's a scrap cos yr gonna be there too..

also i dont think ppl wanna talk when they r trying to relax lol
Old Mar 18, 2008 | 06:52 PM
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ill be far away or i may take a diff class thats offered at the same time
Old Mar 18, 2008 | 06:53 PM
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oo we gotta call that place toO! i got number incar :D
Old Mar 18, 2008 | 06:56 PM
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heh nm
Old Mar 18, 2008 | 07:44 PM
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In high school i had lots of friends, but once we graduated they all moved away and i haven't been able to keep in touch with then.
Then i got a job at magic mountain (worse place to work... cool people, sh**y place to work) and made a lot of friends there since they were still around my age group.
But once i got a full-time job i haven't been able to go out or hang out with any of my friends from magic, and they even stopped keeping in touch.

So yea i only keep in touch with like 1 or 2 friends but not as much



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