Okay i havent talk to anyone very much lately and im stuck in a hard spot, the girl that went with me to the fowler toyota show is no more i dumped her and later found out she had cheated on me with atleast 2 guys possibly 3, anywho, im talking to this new girl and she does things alil different for example......she always has to drive, which was fine at first and now its just got old i know it keeps miles off the new tires, but a fellas self esteem can really drop from havin some girl drive him to all their dates. I ask (more like beg) her to let me drive and she walks to her car!!!! Well she tells me my car is embarrissing "cant spell but u get the point" and she does not wanna be seen in it. That hurts! all the effin hard work i have done and all the bs money i have spent to make me happy with it and i cant get this girl in it at all. What do i do? This girl seems different than the rest im seeing alot of happiness from her, anyways that stuff isnt important and she has got me twisted over her, but the reason for this post is to point out that she finds my car "not good enough " for her! Do i let it go? how do i solve this? I know u may think this is ___ but if u drive a box, its kind of personal!! PLEASE I KNOW SOMEONE HAS SOME GOOD ADVICE FOR ME OUT THERE HELP ME OUT!!!!

 

my .02 worth , move on , find a girl that likes the ride ..

 

Dear JBIBxB ,

If she can't appreciate all the hard work you have put into your car she won't ever appreciate who you are. After all the box is an extension of who you are. If she can't comprimise she's not worth it. There are more fish in the sea!

 

Dude.. let her go cuhz.... Forget what other people think of your ride.. its your car and do what you want to it.. dont let other people put you down.... if she says its embarrasing then thats just wrong....

 

Kick her to the curb.

 

Dude, dont just let her go... Throw her AWAY. If your girl doesnt appreciate what you do then there is no need to keep her away.
Oh and one more thing. I always drive, whether it be my car or my fiances...

 

Sounds kind of lame, a question though... What does she drive that is so high and mighty over the box?

 

If its a Mercedes or a BMW then thats a different class....

 

I'm with everyone else.... move on. Your car is what you do and part of who you are. Unless you plan on completely changing who you are for her.... you might as well deal with the inevitable conclusion to this relationship now and save yourself some grief.

-Wendy

 

dude you dont need a girl like that. u give her an altimatum. either she rides in ur box or shes done lol. but on a serious note, like stated above, your car is the expression of yourself and if she doesnt like that, then in the end she prolly wont like you either.

 

to add, i used to drive a box and went out with two girls that hated it but rode around in it anyways. guess what. that all went to hell. the only girl that ever thought it was cute has been with me one year strong and actually likes my different taste in cars. find one that appreciates the box. nuff said

 

This is simple. Next time y'all are going out, say you're gonna drive and if she walks to her car, you go to your car. If she doesn't respond, drive off without her. All she wants is a doormat, don't be one for her. Good luck on your new search!!!

 

the only one that has a problem is her not u..so i agree with Jon kick her to the curb and keep lookin'.. there's some of us who think guys who drive XBz are sexy..

 

that's pretty much what I would do. Heck my wife pretty much talked me into buyin th 'B because it is so different. She likes somethin that is different from all the rest of the crap on the road. She needs to respect you as a man and let you drive, if she's got a problem like that, well . . .

(tryin to save you from more crap on the back end)

 

Well she is a jeep girl, and we all know how jeep people are, kinda like us "scion people" and about the whole scion thing being such a big part of my life i have made many friends and family memebers from this.....but i wont lie im not completely happy with what i drive it has been nothing but bad luck and am actually in the middle of finding my next ride. if u know me u know what kinda luck ive had with th B if it wasnt for bad luck there would be no luck at all. I didnt expect to get such a big response from this it was just me venting but i appreciate everyones thoughts! Idk im still stuck in a hard spot but for the past 2 months ive been test driving different cars and i think it may be time to say goodbye to the scion........Anyone want anything from the good ol box?

 

she sound a bit shallow to me. why would you not want to be seen in a car that draws as much positive attention as say a ferrari or other high end exotic car ? is she all about letting people think she is into money?

 

Hey K-man, you should come by and pick up the 1NZ and show it to her. I'm sure she'll appreciate the touch inside the car. PEACE. D2E.