9.23.2008 - A day to forever Remember
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Balliztik
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9.23.2008 - A day to forever Remember
Today was the worst day of me and jenn's life....this morning jenn went into early labor and she has been having really bad pains in her side...well to find out the baby died this morning so they had to take her out....She was a "stillborn" baby, right now i still dont know what happen, Jenn is in pieces and i am not doing so well...For now i would like everyone to give us time to collect ourselfs for a few days. Please dont contact Jenn, she is not taking it well right now.......Jaianna is now at a better place, and i will never forget her.....09.23.2008 is a day i will never forget....
We thank everyone for the support that you gave us. Please give us our space, this weekend we will see you all.....
We thank everyone for the support that you gave us. Please give us our space, this weekend we will see you all.....
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Sorry to hear what happened but I know exactly what you and Jenn are going through. My wife and I lost our 1st about 10 years ago. It hurt me even more cause it was a boy... 
We lost him at 8 months, stillborn, also. It hurts badly but time heals wounds.
Now my wife and I have a girl that was born a year after that and now she is gonna be 9.
It's gonna hurt, especially for her the most but with you by her side and being there for her, you'll both get through this hard time in your lives. Most of us guys would love to have the boy 1st but God has plans and I suppose His plan for me was a girl...
My wifes and my prayers are both with you...
We lost him at 8 months, stillborn, also. It hurts badly but time heals wounds.
Now my wife and I have a girl that was born a year after that and now she is gonna be 9.
It's gonna hurt, especially for her the most but with you by her side and being there for her, you'll both get through this hard time in your lives. Most of us guys would love to have the boy 1st but God has plans and I suppose His plan for me was a girl...
My wifes and my prayers are both with you...
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Michael, I am sad to hear of your loss. My wife and I lost our twins after many years of trying and like metro nearly a year we got our son Gracen. For some reason we were not supposed to have twins but have a wonderful son ( who some have met). You and Jenn will be in my thought's as you get through this tough time.
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Um this is not what I had been hoping to read..........I will say a prayer for the little one today that she may make her way safely back to heaven.........I have never been through this personally so I cannot understand the pain you are feeling........but I am sure it is great.......the shock of it all will take a while to become a reality and life will come back to a normal again.........
Mike and Jen.........please take all the time you need........we all will be waiting to see the two of you and to help with anything that we can.........please stay safe and keep your spirits up the best you can.........
Your dear friend.........Brian
Mike and Jen.........please take all the time you need........we all will be waiting to see the two of you and to help with anything that we can.........please stay safe and keep your spirits up the best you can.........
Your dear friend.........Brian
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Prayers to you and Jenn during this difficult time. I am so sorry to hear of your incredible loss. Please take all the time you need and remember we are all here for you if you need anything.
I am at a loss for words my heart pains for you right now. I know there is nothing we can say or do right now....but seriously we will do whatever we can.
I am at a loss for words my heart pains for you right now. I know there is nothing we can say or do right now....but seriously we will do whatever we can.
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I had to break the request and call them to make sure they are ok and I know it was rude of me but I needed to know if there was anything I could do......they are doing ok.....they are spending time with family and getting through this tough day and appreciate the great friendship we have for them........
Mike.........Jenn..........I went and spent my last dollar tonight to raise a toast to you.......should you still be able to come to Larry's this weekend I will be sure to share that toast in person with you.........Aha Toro Anejo in the Red bottle.........my tears are with you........I cannot toast the loss of a child as such perfect innocence should not be remembered in such a way..............but I will toast the valor you are both having to show to make it through this tough time.........
I pray to take as much of your pain from you as you bear to give.........I am used to pain and will gladly take it .........please remember.......even if you cannot smile today.........you will smile again.......
Mike.........Jenn..........I went and spent my last dollar tonight to raise a toast to you.......should you still be able to come to Larry's this weekend I will be sure to share that toast in person with you.........Aha Toro Anejo in the Red bottle.........my tears are with you........I cannot toast the loss of a child as such perfect innocence should not be remembered in such a way..............but I will toast the valor you are both having to show to make it through this tough time.........
I pray to take as much of your pain from you as you bear to give.........I am used to pain and will gladly take it .........please remember.......even if you cannot smile today.........you will smile again.......
