this is a bit out of character for me and i have been fighting the idea to throw my self out there like this all day but here it goes...

A few of you know the situation with my mom and even fewer know the current situation.

On december 3rd mom was sent to the ER with a very high temperature and some
trouble breathing.that night they found her white blood cell count to be almost too low to measure, her blood pressure was critically low, there was an unknown blood infection from one of her multiple surgerys and she had Pneumonia. after loading her with drugs and fluids and with the help of a blood pressure machine they were able to get her stabilized. she stayed in the ICU for about a week before being moved to her "normal" room on the cancer floor. during her stay in the ICU they found her cancer to be active again and concentrated in her hip and spine. this has caused her bones to become so week that her muscles are literally pulling chunks of her hip off.

While she is stable now and on a track to getting over this hump in our journey she will be confined to a bed or wheel chair for a very long time and we still are not sure when she will be home from the hospital. the doctors are doing everything they can to get her home by christmas.

Then, sunday night my grand father fell in his drive way and broke his pelvis. He was rushed to the ER and they found that not only had he broke his pelvis he had an irregularity in his heart. They did an EKG and found that due to an undetected past heart attack the left side of his heart is 90% destroyed and the right side 20%. They are trying to find out what their next step is going to be but due to a heart attack he had last night at the hospital, it is looking far from good.

I guess one possitive is that they are in the same hospital, so it is easy to visit them.

I guess the reason for saying all this is to ask you guys for your thoughts, prayers, hopes, wishes, crossed fingers, whatever we can get to help us through this holiday season and to hopefully allow my mother and grand father to make a complete recovery.

Thank you for taking the time to read this
Chris

 

Hey Chris,

It is sad to hear about your family, but everything will work out in the end. God always has a bigger picture for everyone, whither we see it or not. If you need anything from us do no hesitate to call or send anyone a PM, were are all family here and will do anything to help you and your family through this tough time.

You and your family will be in my prayers and please, please please let me know if there is anything I can do for you.

 

I am sorry to hear about all of the bad news for you and your family. I hope everything works out for the best for everyone. Your family is in my thoughts and prayer. If you need anything let me know and I will certainly do my best.

 

Chris,
meant to ask ya about things friday...but just never got a chance really i guess.... thoughts are with you, your boys and family...
if theres anything jenn or i can do..... you know how to reach me

 

i'll hope for the best for you too man, that is tough. my mother has gone through breast cancer and my father has had a mini-stroke, and my grand parents seem to bein a winding spiral of health lately, so i kinda know the feeling when your always worried about our relatives longevity and well being, i hope they both have a speedy recovery! best wishes man!

 

I will pray for you

 

chris
your family will be in me and sherri's thoughts and pryers.
hang in there bud, and you know that there is alot of us here if you need us at anytime.

 

Chris, I know you know this past year MY mom went through a very hard time. So I have a VERY good idea of what you're going through. I'm praying for your mom Bro, and if you want to talk to someone who knows whats what, just PM me man. and we'll exchange #s.

I'm with ya man.. hang in there and take care.....

 

Oh man.. my grandfather has a cancer.... i didnt see him since 2003... and it might be too late when i get all papers so i could go home.. which could so much, that i need to save up money for almost a year!

"Jobbulást kívánok!" means i wish that they get better.

thats what we used to say in my country ( hungary) if someone is sick

 

we are all family here so you know we will pray for you! im gonna tell my family members and co-workers and friends as well to pray for you and your family in your time of need! just keep your head there will always be better days!

 

wow chris really sorry about all this. if you need anything let me know. my thoughts and prayers are with you man.

 

my thoughts and prayers are with you.. don't hesistate to ask people around you for help, i know all the people up north would be there for you in a minute.

 

 

Like i have mentioned before chris, i'm here for you if you need me.. Things will get better for you and your family

 

Chris your family is in our thoughts and prayers. God will watch over you and your family. Please do not hesitate to reach out to your friends....We would all be there for you in a heartbeat.

 

yeah bro, thoughts and prayers are with you and your family

 

sorry to hear about your family, I was wondering how your mom was doing. Hopefully they will get her better to get home for christmas, and hope your grandpa gets better, let us know if there is anything we can do, you are in our thoughts and prayers.

 

hey Chris.........I am not a Godly man........but I will pray for you and your family with all my heart that your days may take a better path through the holidays.

Just so you know........I am pretty sure God wants us to ask for help without feeling odd about it........it shows we are human.Sometimes the life we view in our own eyes is not very good but these are important paths that are preparing us for the many unknown to us paths we are yet to journey.

Feel free to call anytime or come down and hang out buddy.....

 

Sorry to hear that man.
Best wishes to you and your family.

 

I'm sorry to hear your family is going through tough times, I will definately keep you your family in my prayer's.