I know what you mean Don. Thanks for the help though! I appreciate everyone trying to help me out.

 

UPDATE:
Ok guys I took my car to UMS Tuning in Tempe, AZ and they diagnosed it for 2 hours the first day and told me they needed to put it on the dyno. So they gave me a special appointment the next morning at 8. My car was on the Dynopack dyno from 8:30 till 4:30! An 8 hour tune for a flat rate of $275!!!
So it looks like my AEM wideband sensor was messing up between 11 and 13 afr and my emanage ultimate was trying to self tune off the AEM even with this feature disabled. ? I dont know how it was doing that. So I ended up buying the GReddy map sensor and a new AEM sensor and Tony tuned it very detailed. It drives like it was turboed from the factory now!!! :-)
My car put down 256hp and 281 torque to the wheels on 7.6 psi.
UMS Tuning did an excellent job and I would reccomend them to everyone in the area.

Thanks for everyones help guys and I am excited to start saving for the Dezod APR Racing In-line ECU!!! I cant wait!

 

good numbers.. ums had tuned turbo TCs here before with good results.. you have dyno graphs for the dyno queens?

 

I do have my dyno graphs but I dont know how to post pictures on here. ?

 

Awesome I'm glad to hear that you got everything taken care of.