Im kinda leaning towards eyelids because I have not seen a (non home made) grille I like yet and am skeptical about just buying one off ebay.

If someone can point me to a good black grill, I'd prob go with it first, but eyelids are coming too.

I've decided the rear spoiler will be a Christmas present from my wife because I have a cruise to pay for now

 

There are lots of them out there, but they are quite expensive. $200 for a set would be a pretty good deal.

Google "Scion xB Grill" (http://www.google.com/search?q=scion+xb+grill) and you get about 60,000 results, and there are some nice places to get them on the very first page.

Here is the 2nd result:
http://www.sfxperformance.com/vehicles/Scion-Xb.asp

And if i were you, i wouldnt mind getting one off of ebay. Many of the grills you will find are only overlays anyway, and the ones that arent dont need to be super-high quality. Unless you are going to be showing the car, why does the grill have to be high quality? There are plenty out there that would still hold up fine over time, and indefinitely with an extra clear coat.

Just what ive seen...

 

Overlay would not be bad and I definitely wanna stick with black.