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Old Feb 21, 2007 | 04:37 AM
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okay. here's the lay down on the down low. the girl that i used to work with, we used to have lunch almost every day, hang out to go watch movies, talk to each other on the phone. she is hott. i would say out of my league, but for reason she likes me to do things with me and treat me out once in awhile. here's the dilemma. she has a boyfriend. she's always naggin' about her boyfriend and how he's an a-hole.. and i tell her, 'if you dont' like him, leave him'. and she's like, 'well, you know, i don't want to be alone...'

couple of days ago, we got to talking and she got a place near my house and invited me to come over and check it out. watch a movie or something. i didn't want to because i had a ton of stuff to do. so i said some other time. since then we haven't talked and i'm wondering, geez, am i retarded to think that she has a thing for me to leave her boyfriend? or is she being overly nice for no reason at all?

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Old Feb 21, 2007 | 04:52 AM
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go for it. most definately! worst case nothing happens.
Old Feb 21, 2007 | 05:04 AM
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Yeah whats the worst thing that can happen, she'll still be with her bf, and you'll be the coolest single guy in the world! If all fails, at least you don't have to wonder anymore and ask yourself "what if"
Old Feb 21, 2007 | 05:06 AM
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x2. you dont want to look back and wonder what could have happened.
Old Feb 21, 2007 | 05:07 AM
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do it & blame it on being young & not knowing what you want out of life.....








but take pictures!
Old Feb 21, 2007 | 05:18 AM
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Originally Posted by bcnu_702
Yeah whats the worst thing that can happen, she'll still be with her bf, and you'll be the coolest single guy in the world! If all fails, at least you don't have to wonder anymore and ask yourself "what if"
that's the thing. i have this rule. i never date/sleep with a girl who has a boyfriend, because as funny as it may sound, i believe karma has a funny way around things, and i would hate to be that guy who got cheated on because he's an over-controlling, jealous arsswipe who don't deserve her for one bit. i thought this through in my head and i def. don't want beef with this dude, not because he might start sh*t with me, but the fact that if he does come after me, he's gonna have to die and i don't mean it like, 'i'm gonna hurt him badly'. i don't want to go through all that just to be with her.
Old Feb 21, 2007 | 05:58 AM
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Originally Posted by chrisP
but take pictures!
Yeah... if you do... Def take pics!
Old Feb 21, 2007 | 06:09 AM
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^ mos def.. oh man, you gotta see her arss. I see the beauty of God's creation in the curves of her body.
Old Feb 21, 2007 | 10:35 AM
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how do u know. maybe she's dumping him. maybe you could ask her outright., a bit of awkwardness really helps in the end.


no one in any type of relationships whether it be romantic , work , school , friendships communicate freely between both parties. what a shame.
Old Feb 21, 2007 | 02:45 PM
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i don't think jeebus would like you doing that
Old Feb 21, 2007 | 05:14 PM
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she seems to need help out of her comfortable relationship(even though she's whining about it).

plus, you wouldn't talk to her half as much if she was ugly and hard to look at. you like talking to, and getting attention from a pretty girl. so like others have said:

"Post pictures"
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