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how about a cocktail and then the movies?

first u get to talk while getting rid of the initial "tension"
then the movies - a neutral move so u can't go wrong - no horror, no romantic crap, maybe like a comedy (not the stupid ones) or maybe a thriller

my 2 cents for being a female

 

crap yr 20

 

Pretend she is the horse...

 

bad joke

 

I chose a country western bar. (and i dont like country).. all ages on sunday night... get there and take line dancing lessons, try to line dance till 10 i think (2 hours) then its an open dance floor with all types of music and regular dance.... thoughts?

 

food contact conversation and awkward silence... covered

 

i like silence alot

 

why r u taking her to a place where u don't even enjoy being in?

 

I just mean to say I dont listen to country but attempting to dance in a way that neither of us have ever done before seems like it would work, we mess up together and laugh at how much we suck, and when that is all over they play all types of music, not just country

 

mini golf works too

did that last year just b4 memorial day.....
now she's living w/me

 

pool is great, or i dont know if ur close to any good theme parks, but those are good too, altought that might be too much time together for a first date, but i def. think the pool is a good choice

 

yeah i dated this girl i worked with... ended up pretty bad..

 

For a first date, go somewhat low key, without being too over the top. A romantic dinner at a very posh restaurant is no good, unless you're primary goal is to sleep with her, in which case, it would be fine for the impressive factor. If you genuinely are interested in seeing if there is more, then billiards or a coffee house would be a good spot to talk to her. I would be more partial to the billiards, because you have something to do to fill in any awkward silences. I don't know where you are in NJ, but if you are taking her on a weeknight, go to castle billiards in rutherford because they have a nice atmosphere, a good staff, and a kitchen in case you guys get hungry. It's also fairly close to Ridgefield Park movie theatre so that if you guys are hitting it off, you can see how she feels about seeing a movie, assuming it's not too late for that.

Then if all that works, and you're about to drop her off, walk her to her door....
Unzip yer fly, whip it out and ask "So what are we gonna do about this?"

Ok, maybe do all but the last

 

white castles is a the place to go for food

 

woody, you said the date was sunday...that was the 2nd. your posts should be how it went not still what to do. give it up....did you pick white castle and she walked home?

 

damn, i havent had a first date in a while...
anyhow, how did this date go??

 

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