Yeah IDK unless u feel like(love) there is something about this girl besides all this then I would drop it like its hot because 6 years is a long time. You get to a point where all that is left is marriage. get single

 

I'm in the same situation but my the roles are reversed. My fiance gets very mad at me when I buy things for my car. He even threatened to leave me when I said I want to lower it.

 

Blasphemy!

Marriage is for suckers. Just because you are together for 6 years (or even 10) that does NOT mena you HAVE to get married, especially if you are a man. Men have nothing to gain and everything to lose by getting married.

 

just don't have any kids, and then it doesn't really matter if/when you decide to part ways

Hang in there Joe!

 

it boils down to this. can she accept you th way you are? if not, you need to call it quits. if she likes you the way you are, i'd say stick by her. the woman that likes to be with you, even though she knows your faults and accepts them, is rare.

 

Wow -- he's not much of a car guy is he Now that is a switch.

 

wow man you seem like you have been hurt way to many times with a dumb comment like that. Marriage isnt for suckers if you find the right one and you could care less to be with anyone else explain to me why marriage is for suckers?
You dont think women have nothing to gain and everything to lose as well? Please if your in a mature relationship be happy get married have babies have fun. If you are with the right person your "marriage" can be the happiest times in your life.






anyways... it also sounds as if shes not accepting your fault like working on cars. If you 2 really cared for each other little stuff like car work wouldnt matter. I think you both should move on.

 

Im just not a beliver in divorice thats why I say that. And if there are any SAF out there hit me up haha.


Oh ^^^^^^^ Ditto to above u should enjoi marriage, U are with someone that u decided u were going to spen your life with(not in some peoples minds-Ican see divorcing when they cheat or there is violence but backing out for small personality things Thats lazy and u will never end up happy)

Sorry I feel Strongly Do not mean to offend.

 

Well, my comment came out because "..all thats left to do but get married.."

Just because you have been together for a long time, that does NOT mean you HAVE to get married....thats all Im trying to say.

Of course marriage works (much less than half the time, but.....) if two people make it work. Marriage is not some la-la land where the trees are made from marshmallows and you live on candy-cane road....marriage is work. That is a big part of why it works out so infrequently...once the going gets tough, people tend to want and bail out instead of seeing things through and working on problems. Getting married because of some preconceived notion says you have to is just plain dumb.

Women too have plenty to lose as well...I didnt mean to imply otherwise.

 

Once again I dont mean to offend I just meant by saying in my position 6 years with someone is a long time IDK if i could be someone that long unless I intended to marry her.

 

ever consider www.sciongirls.com

 

my car? it's TFS's for a while... toyota financial... lol.

 

I have the same problems also.
My wife thinks a car is for getting you to and from work, and plus she drives a F150 i can't stand being the pasenger in that thing for more than ten min.

 

Well, SEMA proved to be not a success as far as finding a special lady friend. It was a blast though in general.

 

LOL...I too share the same problem...Its all about compromise man. My girl biatches about the money I spend on my car. The solution!! Everytime I buy a new part I also buy her something. When I wanted my rims, I dropped $100 @ sephora for her. and she shut up! try it, but beware the tip of your nose might start to turn brown...

 

hey joe, glad SEMA was fun. I'm sorry to hear that it's not working out with ms. 6yrs.

I think Reese is right, though... If she really cared for you , car stuff wouldn't matter. it's part of who you are.

 

I'm not white but i hear ya... i'm brown and married a tC loving girl she actually bought me a manual tC 06... adding to my 05 bcp auto... long story... the catch is i'm busting my ___ paying for both... actually both of us are busting asses for them... it's all worth it... but, good move... ditch her... look for some one who will love you and your car...

OBTW... if you buy something for your car make sure you buy something for hers... hehe... <--edit

 

I'm like Amanda....my husband is very knowledgeable about cars but he thinks it's main function is to get from point A to point B...and I'm all about making it look "pretty" if you will

When we go to a parts store or a car show...hell, even driving down the road, I'm usually the one drooling at the cold air intakes and superchargers and the sweet rims on the car we just passed. However, when we purchased the tC, he seemed to be a little more open about customizing it. I guess we'll see what happens!

 

I WISH I was dating someone who took as much of an interest in his car as I do in mine. I want someone who will help me mod out my car!

actually, I would mostly like to be with someone, period, but the car thing would be nice too. Must also tolerate horses

 

i see this thread turning into a personals column