So this is the thing who thinks nice guys finish last? And do girls really want a nice guy sure they say they do but when they get a nice guy they dog him out and go right back to the "bad boy" type. I would like to hear from the girls and guys have to say on this topic. I say this cause when i don't give a sh$t about a girl and blow her off and treat her that way they seem to eat that up, but when I am in to a girl and feeling her and do right by her and wanting to do stuff with her its like where'd she go?

A little back story i had been hanging out with this one girl from work and things were cool. She wanted to keep things low key at work which i understand and was fine with cuz i keep that stuff seperate from work. She would be always wanting to do stuff and would hang out in a parking lot if we were talking to see if i would invite her over or to go do something. Then it was like a 180 I would get I don't know or Maybe when I asked her to do something, and could never get a straight answer when I asked her something. Now she was engaged late last year until he cheated on her, so i understood when she said she was unsure on opening up or really trusting someone. well i asked her this past saturday if she wanted to do something after work and of course i got the I am not sure I don't have any plans. So of course she never got back to me nor did she call. When I asked what happened the next day I got I went up and was tired and fall asleep.
Then today at work another guy who started not to long ago and I have talked to at work was like man my girlfriend's mom is here. And then he told me can I tell you something and will you keep it a secert. So of course I was like yeah, he then tells me not only does he have a girlfriend but he also has been hanging out with the same girl from work I had been talking to and I know he didn't know about me and her. So i just played dumb and asked some questions. He tells me neither girl knows about the other. I asked him if he had hang out with the one from work this past weekend and no surprise there he did.
In a way it kinda burns me up that she is tring to string me along and not tell me that she just doesn't want hang out anymore. So my next question is should I put her on blast and kinda call her out about it let her know that I know or should I just say f*@k it and say nothing and walk away and let her get played? Half of me says i should do one and the other half says i should just do the other and walk. If i do call her out what would be the best way.

any advice would be helpful.

 

Walk away--that is your best bet. By the way, the quote was made by Baseball manager Leo Duroucher.

"Nice guys? I'll tell you about nice guys---Nice guys finish last." The nice guy being referred to was Mell Ott the then manager of the Giants.

 

Nice guys don't finish last. In the end they win.

A woman who would rather a bad ___ is more likely to end up in a horrible relationship or being beaten.

If a girl is really worth it, she will be commited and love you for who you are. A nice loving caring guy is what girls want for life, but from time to time they want a man in charge. Who wants a floozie that changes boyfriends like underwear anyway?

Stick up for a girl, but be a sweetheart. A woman can be god's gift to man, but also satan's temptation.

edit: This is just my opinion, don't jump down my throat :D

 

^^ I agree and the same goes for a man.

To the OP........I agree with just leave it as it is and walk away. If she gets played again, that is her business. She apparantly lost her opportunity with a 'good guy' so don't feel sorry. Maybe she doesn't like you in that way for whatever reason and you should accept that. For every shoe, there is a shoelace..........you deserve a woman who will be upfront and not play stupid games. It's either 'I do or I do not'........plain and simple.

As for good guys finish last..............well, life is ironic.

How many guys you see dog good girls, and end up with the town ***** with 5 kids?......
How many women you see dog good guys and end up with the street thug who she has to suppor?t............( I see it very often).

Lastly, be careful in prioritizing in what you are looking for in a potential mate......

Some people go for just looks..........they want a "trophy mate"..........the smart ones look beyond external beauty and find their "soul mate".

Much luck to you.

 

i don't finish last or first...

i believe in the power of my five (5) leaf clovers (i have two of 'em!!!) its got some wacky powers i just go with the flow of it really

and now i'm getting into the powers of healing stones...

haha johnny off-topic here hahaha

 

First off, you are fooling around with a coworker....mistake #1. If you like your job, do NOT fish off the company pier.

And to answer your question, yes, nice guys do finish last. The example you gave shows that.

Dont listen to what a women has to SAY. What they say and what they mean are two different tings. Listen to how a woman ACTS.

 

yes bad boyz r more attractive
in the short run
i like a bf who is bad a$$ to others and in public - so that i see he can take charge and defend me or whatever who holds his head up high in the sky who won't let anyone offend him or stand in his way
i like a bf who is NICE TO ME who in intimacy is able to relax and open up to take me in his arms and be free to do as we please no rules no nothin no judging

THAT is what women really want

 

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^^ whats up?

 

nice guys get screwed...

 

 

^^ This post pretty much sums it up.

Took the words right outta my mouth!

-THE DON

 

I agree..."listen to how a woman ACTS"...that's classic...never heard that before...it's sooo true.

I've been having the same problem with girls...I've always been too nice to them. I'm coming up with this theory that it's too boring for the girl. If you're too nice...I guess there's not much going on. They want some excitement...some fights...I guess it's interesting. It "fuels" the fire...

It may not hold true to all but that's what it seems.

Anybody feel free to argue my statement. I'd like to discuss this topic and hear what other people have to say.

 

Nice guys finish last for a looooong time, but in the end, they win much more than the "bad guys". Growing up, I didn't have many relationships, but I was a "nice guy" so I was friends with a lot of girls. It sucked because they all wanted to stay "just friends". Now, I am with the love of my life and all of that crap growing up was well worth it for what I have now.

 

so i guess being genuinely nice to girls wont get you no where then.

 

I agree with listen to how they act.........but not entirely. Women can be decieving. I think the biggest clue is what point in their lives they are. Are they immature trying to play silly games? or are they looking for a potential serious relationship. Don't judge by age either because I know lots of immature 30+ year olds and vise versa with young adults.....

As to being "too nice" not sure that is possible............you can be too dumb on the other hand and let her wrap you around her finger and do as she pleases.........not a pretty picture indeed (unless you are turned on by that of course.......lol)

On the other hand, acting like an a$$, deameaning other etc........doesn't do a damn thing for me. I believe a man can be gently, nice (insert quality here)......and still stand his ground firm and not let anyone manipulate him. Bottom line...........I want to be treated like I treat you. Fair is fair.

Not trying to "argue your statement"........just respectufully inputtin my 2 cents.

 

hmmm....

 

yup yup

that's what i meant
nice but not nice to everyone everytime
u want passion i don't want a guy to always agree with me or to always say "ok baby" i want some kind of contrast something to play with

 

 

then you wonder why men are turning ___ ROFL!!!!!!!!