insert lewd thought here

i rather get nailed then get screwed

tell me which would you rather step on

a nail


or a screw

 

Nice = boring

Bad = exciting

Guys would boink the nice quiet church-going librarian, but the **** at the bar is FASCINATING!

Not a very mature attitude I know, but for most of the first decade of anyone's dating life, that's just the way it is.

Take a look at yourself. Are you cleancut? Shaven? Dressed in preppy clothing? Drive an economy car? Work at a nice stable well paying job? Have a routine? Do you look like Paul Giamatti or Steve Busecemi? (right now, I bet you're thinking WHO? - Exactly my point!)

On the other hand, have you spent more than 1 night in jail? Have you got tatoos in places on parts of your body accessible to the general public? (or NOT?) Piercings? (same applies) Have no idea what might happen to you today? Do you have more than one "tequila story"? Are you James Bond? Do you look like James Bond?


Regarding the dreaded "Friend Zone" - check out askmen.com for some general advice on avoiding the friend zone. In short, don't let yourself stick around to be her emotional tampon. A male friend to a woman is like a fashion accessory or a servant. Besides, she's already decided if she'll ever sleep with you in the first 30 seconds you met her. You're not going to change her mind unless you've got some Hugh Hefner -level mojo.

 

Hoo-ah! AMEN! Preach on brother, preach on!

 

Well I dont think thats entirely true. I do have a female friend who ive known for years and I am kewl with. Yes she has a BF, but shes just not my type and we hang out on occasion and still remain great friends.

for some other cases it maybe. all depends on the girl though.



also regarding this, hmmmm some of it can be said to conform with being nice/friend status. But the whole car thing lmaooo. it aint economy at allll. Especially when you boosted. I know people like this who are still a$$oles as well

 

and u know ALL of this cos yr a girl rite?

oh please i'm italian italian girls treat their guy friends better than their girl friends
so do not generalize when u don't know what yr talking about

oh and p.s. im one of the most generous person i've met in my life - and believe me i've met a lot of ppl

 

 

least some body got my joke

 

No,no, I'm just really really bitter, broken, and misogynistic. (Hi ladies! I'm quite the catch. No really. Hey, where are you going? Come back! )

OK, I have no idea how Italian girls are significantly different from the general US population in terms of behavior. Apologies.

Well, good on ya then... but I'm going to guess you haven't considered boinking your guy friends after you met them initially; hence, the dreaded "friend zone". It's not a reflection on your character or theirs, it's just the way of the world.

 

generous as in a good listener too i don't use ppl



(i do agree on the fact that we can quickly tell whether he has more potential or not)

 

i scream filibuster cause i can't even get one word in the conversation when all they do is yak yak and yak and complain all the time so why bother listening

 

someone lock this thread plz. b4 it starts going to hell lol.

 

u mean because im the only one here to defend the "female" race?

 

naw cause its starting to ____ me the crap off lmaoo.

 

no worries if i'm not getting upset that ppl r trashing sexist comments u shud be cool

i know i can be friends with guys and have mutual respect
and so do u

that's all that matters

 

still waiting on that lok lool.

 

Wow..this thread got ugly rather quickly.

but....i like to push buttons, so.....


"OK, I have no idea how Italian girls are significantly different from the general US population in terms of behavior."

Speaking in general terms, and in my experience, American women have a sense of entitlement that is absent in the European ones.

Given the choice, I would go European everytime.

 

^^ he is correct

american women come on strong

european women think the same but we gotta let the men be the "machos" so we just smile about it

 

Hmmm...is that what you thought i said?

I simply meant (for example) that American girls think guys owe them something (dinner, drinks...whatever) for merely spending time with them, especially on a first date.

 

ok then u r wrong

i'm not gonna go into this though
too tired

 

Honey, I cant be.

How can my own personal experiences be wrong?