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Old Apr 6, 2009 | 11:28 PM
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Originally Posted by vettereddie
understand that her job is to keep you coming back. Clubs can be fun entertainment, but they are performers, they are actresses who make it seem as you get special attention. If sometimes you don't pay for a dance, she knows you'll be back. Repeat business is better than a one time high roller.

You're falling for an image, you do not know her outside of work, only the character she's showing you (and other clients). If she was serious, she'd already be willing to meet, at least in a public place for coffee or lunch outside of work.

Move on, and find someone you can interact with outside of their work setting. Strippers are people too, and they do have a life outside of the club. If they're not volunteering to share that life with you, they aren't interested.
I talk to her threw email. She is scared because of her past and she has went threw alot in the past couple of weeks her truck got broken into and ish.. she has done stuff in the club that she is not suppose to do and not sexually ether. but it could cost her job.
Old Apr 6, 2009 | 11:29 PM
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I call BS on this chick & that's obviously coming from another chick.
Old Apr 6, 2009 | 11:30 PM
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I call BS on this chick & that's obviously coming from another chick.
What is the other chick?
Old Apr 6, 2009 | 11:51 PM
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<---------chick.

Your stripper girlfriend whatever she is = chick.

So, I'm calling BS on the chick & that's coming from the perspective of another chick (me).

Shes obviously using you & trying to keep you around. If I was a stripper (which I would never be, since I have more respect for myself than that), I'd pull the same crap she was.

& on top of that, I'm willing to bet her ring wasn't from an "ex-fiance", I'm sure it came from another client.
Old Apr 6, 2009 | 11:55 PM
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Originally Posted by kiss_kiss_kill
<---------chick.

Your stripper girlfriend whatever she is = chick.

So, I'm calling BS on the chick & that's coming from the perspective of another chick (me).

Shes obviously using you & trying to keep you around. If I was a stripper (which I would never be, since I have more respect for myself than that), I'd pull the same crap she was.

& on top of that, I'm willing to bet her ring wasn't from an "ex-fiance", I'm sure it came from another client.
Thanks kiss for letting me know whats up. But my question is why would she email me and such? Its just I have been single for over a year now and its old...
Old Apr 6, 2009 | 11:56 PM
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Because she's trying to keep your interest/you around. It's easy money for her.
Old Apr 6, 2009 | 11:58 PM
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Originally Posted by kiss_kiss_kill
Because she's trying to keep your interest/you around. It's easy money for her.
Yeah I understand that. But there has been alot of times I came in and I had no money at all and she didnt care she just wanted to see me. She never ask me for money or if I want this or that. She has asked on several occasions if it is okay to do things...
Old Apr 7, 2009 | 12:07 AM
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How does that Kanye West and Jamie Foxx song go????????
Seirously I knew a TON of these girls in my lifetime due business and such..and dude your played..it is her job to do this to you
Old Apr 7, 2009 | 12:08 AM
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How does that Kanye West and Jamie Foxx song go????????
Seirously I knew a TON of these girls in my lifetime due business and such..and dude your played..it is her job to do this to you
because she got her own.... am i right
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here this will help you
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xumxVxiWbnI
Old Apr 7, 2009 | 12:13 AM
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Originally Posted by kiss_kiss_kill
Because she's trying to keep your interest/you around. It's easy money for her.
Yeah I understand that. But there has been alot of times I came in and I had no money at all and she didnt care she just wanted to see me. She never ask me for money or if I want this or that. She has asked on several occasions if it is okay to do things...
Originally Posted by kiss_kiss_kill
Because she's trying to keep your interest/you around. It's easy money for her.
AND...it's just temporary free services so you come back later, WITH money, since she knows youre willing to spend some on her.
Old Apr 7, 2009 | 12:14 AM
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cant go to link work has blocked what is it?
Old Apr 7, 2009 | 12:18 AM
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kanye West-Gold Digger video
Old Apr 7, 2009 | 12:22 AM
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Originally Posted by Sciond
kanye West-Gold Digger video
LOL
Old Apr 7, 2009 | 12:32 AM
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Honestly you're just gonna get hurt if you don't break it off.
You're just negligent, she's using you. That's what girls do best.
Old Apr 7, 2009 | 12:34 AM
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Originally Posted by Jlowe
Honestly you're just gonna get hurt if you don't break it off.
You're just negligent, she's using you. That's what girls do best.
I know that is what they do best. And I hate it my whole past is females using me and abusing me because of money that I have what I do for a living and of course my tc.. FTL
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That's NOT what girls do best. If that's your mentality, you come across the WRONG girls all the time, thats for sure, but please don't generalize women as thinking their jobs are to use men.
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Originally Posted by kiss_kiss_kill
That's NOT what girls do best. If that's your mentality, you come across the WRONG girls all the time, thats for sure, but please don't generalize women as thinking their jobs are to use men.
Sorry Im not trying to. It just seems that they want money from me all the time i give out all and recieve none
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Then start being smart, & go after the right girls, NOT strippers, or the girls who's jobs are obviously to sell themselves/their bodies to make money & use guys.
Old Apr 7, 2009 | 12:58 AM
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How about not flaunting you're money?
I mean if you walk around in an expensive suit and rolex all the time, those are the girls you're going to attract. You're only 20, you still have plenty of time to find a serious girl. Don't waste you're time on girls such as this one though.



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