^agreed

& on top of that, do you really want a girlfriend/get serious with someone who's job is to seduce other guys? Are you seriously going to trust someone like that?

 

I know but I dress really nice and look good thats just how i am.

 

Find a girl with a college degree. They have good jobs and can support your car mods

Don't go for the girl who's just "working" her way though college at the club.

Kiss, don't hate on all the strippers. Some of them are crazy, some are druggies and some have daddy issues, but some of them also see some cocky, arrogant guys flaunting money they shouldn't be spending and decide if he's going to spent it, it may as well be on them. At the club unless she's doing dirty she's the one in control, it's the sucker guy who's getting taken advantage of.

 

OMG. IS THIS TPAIN?! IN LOVE WITH A STRIPPER?!

nahh dude jk jk. no disrespect. anyway...lets assume everything else is legit with her feelings and all

the fact that shes already getting jealous about you talking to her friend....::shakes finger:: theres a MAJOR warning sign my friend..

 

You should not be allowed to reproduce and contaminate the gene pool with your stupidity (falling for a stripper and horrible grammar).

 

geez that's so mean
btw...does the friend work there too...?

 

In situations like this, where you have tried and tried to no avail, you just have to sit back and let life take course. Sure, you can email her, but don't put money into this thing. Chances are, it's not worth it.

My uncle is in a similar situation. He has been for 3 years.

He met a girl who was living with a guy, and now she claims that the other guy has moved out ( her baby's daddy). Yet, she never sees him unless they are going out to eat or something and HE is paying. She will not give him her phone number, for no good reason. My uncle seems so hopeful, when in reality, everyone sees what's going on: he is just getting played. My dad has done some PI work and we're gonna go do a stakeout on her apartment one of these days. We think she is living with another guy.

Don't waste your time on this, my uncle is wasting his life and it's really sad to see.

Wake up and get out.

 

well.. not to kill your hopes completely..

but as i kinda mentioned... until she's gonna be willing to hang out as regular people outside her work... and have you be part of her normal life..

there isn't anything.

a relationship.. a real relationship is possible.. but yea.. it's gonna be a rough path to walk... and you need to watch each step you take.

otherwise you'll trip.. fall.. and really end up being screwed.

 

if a girl don't even want to be seen with you in public then you should already know where she stands. sounds to me that all she wants is the money.

try this. don't go see her at the club. don't email her. don't contact her at all. then see how her reaction is. sometimes distance makes the heart grow fonder. if she is diggin you like you say then she will contact you. maybe then you will get to see her outside of her job.

seriously dude there are plenty of fish in the sea. this girl must be hella fine.

 

im in a love with a striperrrrr.....

aside from that,

i saw on manswers once that if you want a stripper to go out with you, you ALWAYS sit at the bar and never pay them for anything.

but GL

 

:high fives for also referencing T-Pain:

 

haha.. oh man..

totally forgot MANswers did this..
http://www.spike.com/video/make-stripper-your/2906035

lol..
ymmv

 

LOL oh god.

spike always delivers

 

Thanks! thats what I am going to do is not go there this week and not email her. I i want her to email me or something though because the times that we are along she tells me how much she likes me and so does her friend her friend work at the door and i have her cell number and she tells me how she will not stop talking about me and her name is mendy btw.

 

Sounds like more reasons for me to never go to a strip club.

 

agreed. Btw, don't go to a strip club for your birthday

happy bday.

 

haha thanks man...and no strip club for me..just having a kick back at my place..video games, pizza, and cake and ice cream ftw!

/threadjack

 

funny thing is that i went on my bday and this is when it all started. but only i was going out with another one from there on dates outside of her work

 

I don't know how you could say something like that & then add a smiley to it like it's okay. That was rude.

 

x2

Thanks kiss!