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Originally Posted by streetracer99x
True. But I have gone there on serveral occasions all I did was sit there and had some drinks and she came over and sat down and talk to me and she knew I did not have any money at all and she was cool with it she sat for a bit and then asked me if it was okay if she went to go work and try to get some money. We had a talk about money and she told me that if I didnt have money if and when we dated she would just go get it from work. She never asks me if she can have money or if I want a dance or vip but on a blue moon she will and if I say yeah she doesnt try to pry more money out of me
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Yes SL is Dr. Phil. Maybe we should sticky this or make a DR.Phill thread lol
all I did was sit there and had some drinks and she came over and sat down and talk to me and she knew I did not have any money at all
and then asked me if it was okay if she went to go work and try to get some money
You're trying to get involved with a chick who BLATANTLY just said she's gonna go strip to make some money.
You also said she only goes there to have fun.
You're not takin ANYBODY'S advice here. So basically, you have your mind set. Go get serious with this girl.
*kicks back & waits for the "I just got played by a stripper who I thought was my gf" post*
Your excuses = fail.
The cover pays for drinks all night.
I want to take the advice. But like I said I dont have anything anymore I sleep on my friends couch because my family and all of my past friends are gone... Its just nice to talk to a girl about things you cant say to some dude because they think its weird.
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Originally Posted by streetracer99x
Squallheart- did you date someone in that *field*?
and as i also mentioned.. even if you two were dating and sincerely cared for each other.. there's still that possibility of you getting burned..
because yeah... i did.
(though most of it wasn't really because of her work.. more just she was just... crazy)
heheh.. hey.. it might work out for ya.. but.. yea.. as i said..
work and personal life... two different things.
also had a friend that dated a Hooter's gal.. that he met AT her workplace.. hahah.. that was interesting.
me and my friends were like.. "you picked up a Hooters girl at Hooters?!" daymn..
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Originally Posted by streetracer99x
Originally Posted by kiss_kiss_kill
Originally Posted by streetracer99x
True. But I have gone there on serveral occasions all I did was sit there and had some drinks and she came over and sat down and talk to me and she knew I did not have any money at all and she was cool with it she sat for a bit and then asked me if it was okay if she went to go work and try to get some money. We had a talk about money and she told me that if I didnt have money if and when we dated she would just go get it from work. She never asks me if she can have money or if I want a dance or vip but on a blue moon she will and if I say yeah she doesnt try to pry more money out of me
To: kiss kiss
Yes SL is Dr. Phil. Maybe we should sticky this or make a DR.Phill thread lol
To: kiss kiss
Yes SL is Dr. Phil. Maybe we should sticky this or make a DR.Phill thread lol
all I did was sit there and had some drinks and she came over and sat down and talk to me and she knew I did not have any money at all
and then asked me if it was okay if she went to go work and try to get some money
You're trying to get involved with a chick who BLATANTLY just said she's gonna go strip to make some money.
You also said she only goes there to have fun.
You're not takin ANYBODY'S advice here. So basically, you have your mind set. Go get serious with this girl.
*kicks back & waits for the "I just got played by a stripper who I thought was my gf" post*
Your excuses = fail.
The cover pays for drinks all night.
I want to take the advice. But like I said I dont have anything anymore I sleep on my friends couch because my family and all of my past friends are gone... Its just nice to talk to a girl about things you cant say to some dude because they think its weird.
& you said you "dress nice & look good", how are you paying for that? It's evident you DO have money. Stop spending it on strippers & save a little & get an apartment rather than bumming off yours friends. I understand it's nice to talk to a girl, but quality over quantity, find someone right for you. This girl is nothing but a money pit.
& if your family and friends are gone, then it's time to make new friends, OUTSIDE of a strip club. You're 20, HOW ARE YOU DRINKING ANYWAY!? (how has nobody in this post said that yet when he's mentioned drinking so many times?)
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From: Shawnee
Originally Posted by SquallLHeart
Originally Posted by streetracer99x
Squallheart- did you date someone in that *field*?
and as i also mentioned.. even if you two were dating and sincerely cared for each other.. there's still that possibility of you getting burned..
because yeah... i did.
(though most of it wasn't really because of her work.. more just she was just... crazy)
heheh.. hey.. it might work out for ya.. but.. yea.. as i said..
work and personal life... two different things.
also had a friend that dated a Hooter's gal.. that he met AT her workplace.. hahah.. that was interesting.
me and my friends were like.. "you picked up a Hooters girl at Hooters?!" daymn..
dude all strippers are the same way they just act like they like you all they want is your money , stay away from these girls. Have a fun time with them but don't get so involved. That's my advice gl LOL .
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Originally Posted by shupes31
What exactly happened that all these things are gone? And if you have so little, why are you paying for this? If you don't wanna say it on here, you can PM me.
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lol yeah, I had seen your name a few other times. I just didn't want to be a creeper and call people by their first name when we've never been introduced. I'm josh, if you couldn't tell from the huge sig. haha
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Originally Posted by kiss_kiss_kill
Originally Posted by shupes31
he said he wasn't buying SPIKED drinks kiss kiss ( i hate referring to people by their usernames 
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Originally Posted by geo46_2
dude all strippers are the same way they just act like they like you all they want is your money , stay away from these girls. Have a fun time with them but don't get so involved. That's my advice gl LOL .
Its like Dom said
For those 10 seconds or less im free.
I couldnt agree with kiss kiss any more than I do..
Here's another chick prespective for you, I'll be honest I have spent WAY too many hours at strip clubs (what can I say I live in portland, the city with more strip clubs per capita then any other state), but never as a dancer. crazy as that sounds it was what I did with all my guy friends. I watched some of my best friends get lured into thinking Barbie or Candi liked them, so they threw more $ at them, only to go in a few weeks later and meet her bf..
It's a job, she does it to get money and u give it to her.. Think of what would happen if you actually dated her and she remained a dancer, she is still going to want you to throw money at her cause she's used to you doing it..
You'll have to be pretty secure with yourself if you wind up dating her, she'll still be taking her clothes off for other guys.. but you do what you gotta do, at this point in time its faaaaaaaaaaar from healthy..
Here's another chick prespective for you, I'll be honest I have spent WAY too many hours at strip clubs (what can I say I live in portland, the city with more strip clubs per capita then any other state), but never as a dancer. crazy as that sounds it was what I did with all my guy friends. I watched some of my best friends get lured into thinking Barbie or Candi liked them, so they threw more $ at them, only to go in a few weeks later and meet her bf..
It's a job, she does it to get money and u give it to her.. Think of what would happen if you actually dated her and she remained a dancer, she is still going to want you to throw money at her cause she's used to you doing it..
You'll have to be pretty secure with yourself if you wind up dating her, she'll still be taking her clothes off for other guys.. but you do what you gotta do, at this point in time its faaaaaaaaaaar from healthy..
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Originally Posted by streetracer99x
Originally Posted by geo46_2
dude all strippers are the same way they just act like they like you all they want is your money , stay away from these girls. Have a fun time with them but don't get so involved. That's my advice gl LOL .
Its like Dom said
For those 10 seconds or less im free.
but it's not just the environment you MET her in, it's where you CONTINUE to see her.
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at the fast and furious quote.
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Originally Posted by kiss_kiss_kill
So, it's been 6 pages. What's your plan, D-Money?
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I couldnt agree with kiss kiss any more than I do..
Here's another chick prespective for you, I'll be honest I have spent WAY too many hours at strip clubs (what can I say I live in portland, the city with more strip clubs per capita then any other state), but never as a dancer. crazy as that sounds it was what I did with all my guy friends. I watched some of my best friends get lured into thinking Barbie or Candi liked them, so they threw more $ at them, only to go in a few weeks later and meet her bf..
It's a job, she does it to get money and u give it to her.. Think of what would happen if you actually dated her and she remained a dancer, she is still going to want you to throw money at her cause she's used to you doing it..
You'll have to be pretty secure with yourself if you wind up dating her, she'll still be taking her clothes off for other guys.. but you do what you gotta do, at this point in time its faaaaaaaaaaar from healthy..
Here's another chick prespective for you, I'll be honest I have spent WAY too many hours at strip clubs (what can I say I live in portland, the city with more strip clubs per capita then any other state), but never as a dancer. crazy as that sounds it was what I did with all my guy friends. I watched some of my best friends get lured into thinking Barbie or Candi liked them, so they threw more $ at them, only to go in a few weeks later and meet her bf..
It's a job, she does it to get money and u give it to her.. Think of what would happen if you actually dated her and she remained a dancer, she is still going to want you to throw money at her cause she's used to you doing it..
You'll have to be pretty secure with yourself if you wind up dating her, she'll still be taking her clothes off for other guys.. but you do what you gotta do, at this point in time its faaaaaaaaaaar from healthy..
