Hey guys, I guess I just need some emotional support. I usually don't act so outwardly with my feelings, but you guys in the NW have grown on me.

Possibly ending a ~2.5 year relationship, I just need some positives to take away from this. Hope you can help.

Curtis

 

when i ended my two year relationship, i found myself having a lot more money for my car... ur car is waiting for u

 

True that, Christmas is coming up too..

 

Well that is a tough place to be in ..........

been a long time since I was single.......long long time........but I do remember how unhappy I was being in a relationship that was not fullfilling to my personal needs on any level.

Parting ways on several years of your life are gonna be hard........if needed you can come down and I can cook you dinner and we can have a few cold ones and watch the World series........hope that did not sound ___ or anything.......just trying to help........plus my cooking is really good.......and I like to listen and help.....

 

spoil urself man... 2.5 year relationship is not easy... im not gonna give u those "u'll be back together if its meant to be" crap... just do what u want to... live ur life.. ur only 20 man..

 

Thanks guys, I really respect and appreciate your opinions. It's nothing new to say, but it's just tought on me right now..I just feel numb to everything. I just want to get out of this slump, whether it be staying in the relationship or being ditched.

 

long drives works for me... 07 tc and i have 53k miles =P

 

You're 20, go out and hit on anything that walks.

Srsly, 20 is tooo young to be in a relationship imo.

 

You're a young UW college student. No need for a serious relationship! There are plenty of fine ladies all around campus. If only I were your age again...

Now you know what not to do in the next one. You should drag my "old" a$$ with you when you turn 21. If you don't want some UW ladies I'll take em' off your hands. :D

 

^ no me first

 

exercise go for a jog usually get anyting off of my mind then have a night out with the guys remember tell them not to bring their girls out just guys night out. But seriously jogging and exercise always helps clear my mind

 

and also its one less thing you have to worry about like the others said just live your life and enjoy it... your young im 100% sure youll find the right woman. Be it work or school or just someone around the corner it will happen one day be patient and dont do drugs make the situation worse

 

you gotta keep yourself busy man....work alot or go out with your friends (go clubbing and hit up some chicks!)...i know it aint easy, but you just gotta think that "theres other fishes in the sea".

 

"wam, bam, thank you ma'am"

always nice to know guys are still thinking like that =]
but i agree with everyone else, do what makes you happy or do what ever feels right.. and good.. for you

haha

 

spend your time with a bunch of friends... surround yourself with your friends, keep your self busy... go out and have fun... this is what i did when my 3.5 year relationship ended. or, you can concentrate more on your studies and when your done, you can have any fine ladies you want since you will be more educated and have a stable job to support urself and ur future new gf. women these days go for a guy who can take care of themself and have a decent job/education. just go have fun and study hard. u will do fine.

 

LOL! GUYS can just hang Brian. You're still a manly man! <sniff> you never invite me..er.. never mind... LOL!

 

Bro if ur not happy just leave and be done with it!
i did it, best move i ever made!

 

^ I gotta agree man, you need to talk to her and you will probaly see she is feeling it too. You gotta just do it as you will A.) Both feel better that you talked, and had enough respect for her to do it than carry on, and B.) feel better either way once you have talked. Its always hard to be "alone" over the holiday season but i personally think its better to be single and happy than to be with someone and miserable! Plus you always got some friends up North here as well!!!!!!!!!

 

Redbeard grab Curtis and comeon down for dinner........then the three of us go up north to UW and pick up some hot UW chicks..........well I will round them up and Curtis can pick.........the misses might get mad if I pick up chicks for myself.......plus I got short,fat and funny looking in my old age.....

 

NOT GOD ADVICE!!!!!!!!!

Going out and "hittin" anything that walks will NOT heal your heart, breakups are hard...you need to do what YOU need to do in order to heal weather it be going and hanging out with Brian (who is an amazing cook as well as friend) or sitting at home putting yourself back together...only you know what will make you feel better. Don't just run around town hittin anything that walks that does nothing except fills the void for right now...you will be back to square one the next day...heal first. But most importantly figure out if you really want to end the relationship, is it really worth throwing 2.5 years out the window? Is the problem something that can be fixed? Do you love her enough to work it out? You make the decision that is best for you nobody else knows what's best for you....we are here for you and love you, you are family and if you need anything please don't hesitate I know this is hard....