I apologize at my ignorance, i did not know about reflective issue on the stock headlights....but i guess it's obvious if you think about it..now i know....
I'm surprised i didn't come across this info when i was getting the HIDS.

Well the good news is that i only used them for a short while and took them out.

 

I used HID's in my stock housings for over a year, got flashed every night, then went to sonars, didnt get flashed much, then when I switched to my bB housings with HI/LO bulbs and casper shields the flashing has stopped completely. if you put the right bulbs in a stock housing you will be alright.