Hey, just curious on what kind of advice you people out there can give on meeting girls and actually try & starting a relationship etc....

Thanks!!

 

be yourself.

 

HaHa...Wish that was true..A lot harder than you think...Thanks!

Just seeing what others think...

 

Sounds like great advice to me! What's so hard about it? I guess if you explained your current tactics, that would help with the advice.

This sounds depressing but one thing that seems to work is to just give up. Seriously, this has happened to several people I know. Accept the fact that you're never going to meet anyone and suddenly the girls will be all over you because you'll be relaxed, aloof and yourself! I think we have a 6th sense when it comes to guys being sad or desperate and that's a turn off.

Good luck!!!

 

Cool..wish most girls think like you...I live in southern Cali and most girls here are Full of themselves and snobby and kinda "fake" too...Then ALL the "nice" girls are married or have b/f's already..HaHa...so yea...

I dont have any tactics...lol..Thats why I started this topic!!

 

Funny, all of us single girls say ALL the "nice" guys are married or have b/fs already. I swear, it's because they get to be themselves and aren't saying and doing stupid things to get our attention!

 

Make her laugh and smile...that usually works...

 

Yeah and all us nice guys say all the good girls want bad boys.

 

let me say after about 2.5 years of not actting like myself and returned too being/actting myself got me divorced

like i care now i'm happy

 

Drive a Scion, chicks love them..

 

and as soon as you notice someone take advantage of you ... get out.. and if you really feel strongly for the person.. tell the person and make sure it's mutual.. if not get out.. and bounce..

 

Ain't that the truth

 

wear cologne, floss, comb hair, clean shoes. bam u get gurls like flies. oh wait thats me.

umm be urself.

 

Apparently I have NO game...haha.....Oh well....Thanks for the advice everyone...Keep them coming!!

 

you gotta spit madd game yo.

 

dress up like superman and go to comic-con this weekend. you'll get some attention.
you're lucky you're in san diego.... i would be down there this weekend for the con, but i have family stuff.
san diego will be infested with thousands of people this weekend... no reason you can't meet someone to hang out with.

and while you're there... say hi to guy and geoff.. they should be there selling t-shirts and dvds and other RvB stuff.... (at the RvB booth of course... if you can find it) and get yourself a lightish red t-shirt, wear it and walk around... trust me... you'll get compliments. unless that's not your thing.. but hey... whatever.

"I would just like to let everyone know that I'm a girl, and I like ribbons in my hair, and I want to kiss all the boys."
- Grif

 

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That and don't treat them as nice as you would like to. Sounds retarded, but trust me it works. For some reason chicks say they want a nice guy but they really want the badboys. But yeah, mainly $.

 

First off, understand that the ladies think in a different way than guys. Drop all logic when chatting them up.

Do not put them on a pedestal.
Do not be afraid to be a man.
Do NOT spend loads of cash on a date ($40 or less per date).
No daytime dates.
If the two of you are of age, go have some drinks.
Do NOT waste time. Be direct. If she says no, great. You do not have to spend any more time going after her...on to the next one.

 

Don't ever LIE!! Its the biggest turnoff ever in the world!

 

Observe how girls act; you will notice what they say they want and what they really want are two different things.

Girls act first, then they justify.