How do I get a decent relationship??

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Jul 25, 2006 | 03:58 PM

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BSP_5c10n

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Originally Posted by BSP_5c10n

Oh yeah and don't let "they might have a b/f" stop you from talking to them. First of all, they may NOT have a b/f and you'll never know until you talk to them or at least see them with some other guy (which may NOT even be their b/f, just a wannabe). Second of all, just because they're "taken" doesn't mean they're not still looking. She might be planning on dumping the guy she's with anyway. Just talk to her, if she doesn't seem interested at all... Oh well. But if she does...

I like this advice...But everytime I am nice and stuff...Girls think I am stalking them or want more!...I dunno what to do...I aint the "playa" type or a "a-hole" type...so I dunno...haha...Cool to see different opinions n junk!...glad I made this topic!

Psh... that's all in your head. First of all, don't beat around the bush. Talk to them first of course but don't drag it out forever. Confidence is a must here. Just get a feel for what they like, their interests, their personality. Find something you have in common (if anything) and ask them to accompany you to a place that has to do with her interest and personality. If she seems like the fun and games type, try go-karts or arcade, something like that. Remember not all girls are the dinner and a movie type. Try to be more than ordinary. Let your personality show don't try to seem like you're hiding something or you're a fake.

Also PLEASE, PLEASE remember that some girls are just plain old beeatches. If you like this girl but she won't even give you the time of day.... Think to yourself: "Do I really see myself in a relationship with this person?"... of course not. Don't let girls like that hurt your self-esteem. Just move on.