How do I get a decent relationship??
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here's my fav pic up line.
ask her: hey did u jus rob a bakery?
she'll say: no, why?
u say: cuz it looks like u stuffed all the cakes in ur pants.
usually works cuz its not really offensive. even the goodie goodie gurls will chuckle at this. .....then u in there like swimwear.
ask her: hey did u jus rob a bakery?
she'll say: no, why?
u say: cuz it looks like u stuffed all the cakes in ur pants.
usually works cuz its not really offensive. even the goodie goodie gurls will chuckle at this. .....then u in there like swimwear.
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no wonder u ppl r talking about getting game and not actually gettin any 
i think i said this before and i will say it again....u ppl that continue to complain about girls wanting money or getting cheated on then im guessing u go for goldiggin hoes
sup with that? i paid everything for my ex bf (food, movies, games, xbox, clothes, whatever) cos he was dirt poor and not once i complained like u ppl do
money is just money if u spend it on whom u love it shouldn't matter
and if it does matter that means the relationship yr in is not worth it
i think i said this before and i will say it again....u ppl that continue to complain about girls wanting money or getting cheated on then im guessing u go for goldiggin hoes
sup with that? i paid everything for my ex bf (food, movies, games, xbox, clothes, whatever) cos he was dirt poor and not once i complained like u ppl do
money is just money if u spend it on whom u love it shouldn't matter
and if it does matter that means the relationship yr in is not worth it
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^^^
She says she's bitter, she says she's crazy, but what she doesn't tell you is that she's good people (unless she meant stab you in the neck with a pen crazy, then I'd have to reevaluate
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She says she's bitter, she says she's crazy, but what she doesn't tell you is that she's good people (unless she meant stab you in the neck with a pen crazy, then I'd have to reevaluate
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just go up to girls and say "hi, how are you?" and look them in the eye. Just talk to them just the way you'd like them to talk to you. Be courteous, but don't be overly nice. Remember, girls are regular people trying to get some honey too. Be confident and genuine and you'll get plenty of girls.
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Originally Posted by planb1215
just go up to girls and say "hi, how are you?" and look them in the eye. Just talk to them just the way you'd like them to talk to you. Be courteous, but don't be overly nice. Remember, girls are regular people trying to get some honey too. Be confident and genuine and you'll get plenty of girls.
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well, i haven't seen anyone post an answer to the root of his problem. first and foremost, you need to know what you are looking for in a woman. you need to decide how nice her body has to look to you. how pretty her face needs to be for you. how smart she needs to be? what kind of humor does she need to find funny? does she have the passion you are looking for? how deeply does she need to care for the important things in her life? is she as into the physical part of the relationship as you?......
there are more than that, but you need to know exactly what you're looking for and you need to know what ways you are willing to compromise on those criteria.
If you don't know what you are after, no pick up line in the world is going to help you because it doesn't take a woman long to figure out that you have no idea what you're looking for. not a very appealing situation for her. so, she will want to leave. I'm not saying you can't change your mind, but you have to start with something. It may take a while and a few girlfriends to figure out exactly what it is you want, but that's the nature of the beast.
once you know what you want from a relationship it is easier to be confident. and breaking up isn't as tough either if you can reason it out and figure out where the problem lies. Little indicators like being ambivalent while choosing dinner or a movie are clues to her that you are not that confident. Always have a choice made up in your mind. don't say "I don't care, whatever you want." She wants you to decide and have an opinion.
To know what you want, you need to know what she wants, and why. Women are looking for a rock of a man that stands in the water against the current. Not a push-over. They want someone that will take a stand and knows what he wants despite the hardships that may follow. They want someone dependable, reliable, exciting, and spontaneous. Someone that knows how to romance her when she's off her game and makes her feel like the most important person in the world. Someone that will help her through tough times and make her smile in spite of all of her, and your, woes. She needs to know you care, not just at special times, but at random times. just sending a box of chocolates or flowers to her work often does the trick.
Please note that those are general guidelines and don't apply to every woman.
there are more than that, but you need to know exactly what you're looking for and you need to know what ways you are willing to compromise on those criteria.
If you don't know what you are after, no pick up line in the world is going to help you because it doesn't take a woman long to figure out that you have no idea what you're looking for. not a very appealing situation for her. so, she will want to leave. I'm not saying you can't change your mind, but you have to start with something. It may take a while and a few girlfriends to figure out exactly what it is you want, but that's the nature of the beast.
once you know what you want from a relationship it is easier to be confident. and breaking up isn't as tough either if you can reason it out and figure out where the problem lies. Little indicators like being ambivalent while choosing dinner or a movie are clues to her that you are not that confident. Always have a choice made up in your mind. don't say "I don't care, whatever you want." She wants you to decide and have an opinion.
To know what you want, you need to know what she wants, and why. Women are looking for a rock of a man that stands in the water against the current. Not a push-over. They want someone that will take a stand and knows what he wants despite the hardships that may follow. They want someone dependable, reliable, exciting, and spontaneous. Someone that knows how to romance her when she's off her game and makes her feel like the most important person in the world. Someone that will help her through tough times and make her smile in spite of all of her, and your, woes. She needs to know you care, not just at special times, but at random times. just sending a box of chocolates or flowers to her work often does the trick.
Please note that those are general guidelines and don't apply to every woman.
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Originally Posted by xlr8tC
To know what you, want you need to know what she wants, and why. Women are looking for a rock of a man that stands in the water against the current. Not a push-over. They want someone that will take a stand and knows what he wants despite the hardships that may follow. They want someone dependable, reliable, exciting, and spontaneous. Someone that knows how to romance her when she's off her game and makes her feel like the most important person in the world. Someone that will help her through tough times and make her smile in spite of all of her, and your, woes. She needs to know you care, not just at special times, but at random times. just sending a box of chocolates or flowers to her work often does the trick.
wow....i need to sit down
congratulations xlr8tC for your perceptiveness
i am positive you had/have/will have a very strong love life
now if you could put this as a sticky thread all over the forum i'm sure some of these other guys will get luckier
(p.s. i rarely give out compliments)
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Originally Posted by planb1215
just go up to girls and say "hi, how are you?" and look them in the eye. Just talk to them just the way you'd like them to talk to you. Be courteous, but don't be overly nice. Remember, girls are regular people trying to get some honey too. Be confident and genuine and you'll get plenty of girls.
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Originally Posted by tC4italy
wow....i need to sit down
congratulations xlr8tC for your perceptiveness
i am positive you had/have/will have a very strong love life
now if you could put this as a sticky thread all over the forum i'm sure some of these other guys will get luckier
(p.s. i rarely give out compliments)
well, thank you. I appreciate the compliment.
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Also, be careful with random flowers or chocolates. Some women may think you're covering up for something you did even if they didn't know about it. Say for an example...You "stay late at work to finish your project." You send her flowers the next day because you feel guilty about staying at work late and not making it home in time for dinner, and you want to make amends for it. She'll be like...hmm....The flowers are nice. How thoughtful. I wonder why he thought he had to send these to me. Was he REALLY working on that project or was he with someone else?
Sometimes, some women take things out of context and try to tear you up. Just be sure to provide an ample reason for the flowers or chocolates on the card you send with them.
Sometimes, some women take things out of context and try to tear you up. Just be sure to provide an ample reason for the flowers or chocolates on the card you send with them.
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Originally Posted by RoswellScion
Sometimes, some women take things out of context and try to tear you up. Just be sure to provide an ample reason for the flowers or chocolates on the card you send with them.