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From: Royal Post Palace
Originally Posted by kanundrum
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Originally Posted by kanundrum
what if some of us like getting hit
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i was raised to believe that it is wrong to hit a girl, and i include it in my code of conduct. only exception is ofcourse, life and death situation, and if the girl is bigger and stronger than i am, fine, it is okay, they can take it,
but realistically, say a man and a woman get into a fight, police are called, who is more likely to be in more trouble? the girl will cry and say he started it, and gender bias will also play against us.
it is better to be a man and take the hit, than to be stupid and strike her back, and get an assault charge.
but realistically, say a man and a woman get into a fight, police are called, who is more likely to be in more trouble? the girl will cry and say he started it, and gender bias will also play against us.
it is better to be a man and take the hit, than to be stupid and strike her back, and get an assault charge.
Me & my ex bf got into an argument in the open near a liquor store. I wil lnot say what the argument was about but I got him pretty ____ed off so as I was walking back to my car (he was still there) from the liquor store. He took the bottle I had in my hand and smashed it against the wall.
We continued verbally fighting I guess I pushed his buttons so he hit me in the face, This is a 6'2" martial arts lived in the real ghetto guy, so yeah it stung me even though he hit me with literally 3 fingers my lip bled.
This idiotic college guy was watching all the while and said that my bf should not have hit me. So my bf goes up to him and says "you wanna defend her? defend her. common be a man and fight me instead of calling 911"
The kid just left and called the cops.
freakking 8 cop cars. Obviously when the police asked me what happened I told them the truth but I didn't press charges.
Moral of the story: not everyone who "smacks" a girl is a monster. AND cops should know what their real duties lie.
Do you know in prison he would get beaten and targeted?
Hitting a girl like he did is a sign of being a coward.
Just once he smacked me across the face with 3 fingers. And after that he felt like a low life and to this day he regrets it.
In prison he would get beaten. True. But to a guy who grew up in favelas in brazil having his gang protecting each other from guys with guns and having beaten up numerous times by his father, would be scared of going to jail? He wanted me to press charges.
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I've been slapped, punched, spit on, head butted, kicked, and still didn't hit back my wife. Some guys grow up one way, some another.
It's simple logic to not hit someone bigger than you. Usually it's only men that understand this logic.
I guess I come from a different place where you're not allowed to hit women or children, for no reason...at all....ever... It's called america.
I guess if a woman hit my son, i would push her back, and ask my woman to kick her ___. that's about as close as it gets.
It's not that woman don't deserve to get hit back. O, lots of people deserve a hit or more. ****, Rapists and child molesters DESERVE to get their nuts cut off and to live out their days in a well.
But, "Deserve's ain't got nothing to do with it."
It's simple logic to not hit someone bigger than you. Usually it's only men that understand this logic.
I guess I come from a different place where you're not allowed to hit women or children, for no reason...at all....ever... It's called america.
I guess if a woman hit my son, i would push her back, and ask my woman to kick her ___. that's about as close as it gets.
It's not that woman don't deserve to get hit back. O, lots of people deserve a hit or more. ****, Rapists and child molesters DESERVE to get their nuts cut off and to live out their days in a well.
But, "Deserve's ain't got nothing to do with it."
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Originally Posted by tC4italy
Originally Posted by kanundrum
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Originally Posted by kanundrum
what if some of us like getting hit
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Originally Posted by hotbox05
you wouldnt hit a girl if she kicked you in the ***** or had a lethal weapon in steed to be used against you or your fam ?
if someone, anyone, came at my family with a lethal weapon, i'd kill them to defend them.
i guess i forgot to mention, im 6'4" 220. no woman i've met, minus some _____ with karate skills i guess, is going to make much of a dent on me. i can usually hold them back with my arms. But I will hold some woman or child down, if they constantly swing at me. but i won't hit them.
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"Ain't nobody above an ___ whupping. **** there's a good reason to kick an old man down a flight of steps, just don't do it."
I'm very familiar with the chris rock sayings, and they make sense. "Just don't do it"
I'm very familiar with the chris rock sayings, and they make sense. "Just don't do it"
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Originally Posted by jallamas
If I was to be hit by my fiance her a$$ would be out the door! If it was some other woman my niece 
would kick her a$$. The bottom line is you don't hit a woman.
would kick her a$$. The bottom line is you don't hit a woman.you kick your wife out?
you kick your child's mother out?
Do you just keep taking the hits?
Do you press charges?
Just wondering what sorta solution you have to that. My wife will never seek therapy.
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well heres my side of it.
my past two relationships were pretty bad. i was abused and beat by my exes. both of which ended up in breaking up. i can only tolerate so much. i had a knife thrown at me and it missed and hit the couch instead. and because of her actions and mine, (i left the house and moved into a hotel for a week) we lost custody of my first born daughter.
now unfortunately their are guys out there that hit women to the point of bruising and physical and mental pain. i know two of those men. and one was my best friend. these guys to me are scum of the earth and dont deserve anything at all to benefit their life and well being.
but in my situation, i was brought up to walk away from conflict. and never hit a girl unless it was for play and pleasure. and then their is still a limit on that.
this is a good topic and a great way to see opinion
my past two relationships were pretty bad. i was abused and beat by my exes. both of which ended up in breaking up. i can only tolerate so much. i had a knife thrown at me and it missed and hit the couch instead. and because of her actions and mine, (i left the house and moved into a hotel for a week) we lost custody of my first born daughter.
now unfortunately their are guys out there that hit women to the point of bruising and physical and mental pain. i know two of those men. and one was my best friend. these guys to me are scum of the earth and dont deserve anything at all to benefit their life and well being.
but in my situation, i was brought up to walk away from conflict. and never hit a girl unless it was for play and pleasure. and then their is still a limit on that.
this is a good topic and a great way to see opinion
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I wanted to have an intilectual topic, since most are about racing and "hot chicks". I wanted something that would make people think. And a place where I can learn. I love hearing opinions. And next, I might start a thread about religion...... 
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Originally Posted by kanundrum
Originally Posted by ___MmmBoxy___
Originally Posted by kanundrum
what if some of us like getting hit
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