Just make sure you stand strong. Dont let her feed you some BS story about how she didn't realize what she was doing or that she never wanted it to end up like this!

 

^ no doubt about it, i will make sure im the one thats basically screaming at her to prove im not the _____ in the "relationship

 

what no screamin...
keep yr cool
it throws ppl off much more

 

If you yell at them it will just make her mad, but if you keep your cool she will be upset that you dont seem to be that angry at her.

 

exactly
when my ex screamed in my face red with anger he couldn't even talk
i just sat there smoked a cig and smile

and oh boy....... im not even gonna continue


so yeah just keep it nice and cold headed

 

man, i made the biggest mistake, the mistake was that i listened to her cuzin, i found out she didnt cheat on me, basically her and her cuzin are mad at each other and the cuzin is taking ____ too far, the bad news is that me and my gf and are now friends but thats because shes been busy lately and she doesnt want me to be stressed out on trying to see her, she said after things calm down we will give it another go. and she said never to bring in a third party to a relationship, she said always talk to the gf and no one else to fix things. lol god im glad i wasnt played

 

Switch the rough sex to the cousin?


Or even better, tell the cousin that you left the country becayse you were so sad and you need a $100 or the columbian drug lord will kill you. Then keep the 100$ and put it into your tC.

 

FOR THE BEST:

Something did not turn out the way you wanted. And maybe, it
was for the best.

Disappointments and setbacks can have a way of becoming
positive turning points. When something does not work out,
it makes room for other possibilities.

Be careful not to attach your sense of fulfillment too
tightly to specific outcomes and circumstances. For there
are far more possibilities than you have yet imagined.

Sometimes you aim too high and sometimes you aim too low.
When you do, the resulting disappointments can help guide
you toward where you truly want to be.

Whether the last few days have seen you move forward or fall
back, new doors have most certainly been opened by whatever
has happened. Choose now to focus on the most promising of
your current options.

Go with the assumption that whatever happens is for the
best. And you'll find a way to make it so.

Ralph Marston

 

^^ that guy is 100% right

if it wasn't meant to be it wasn't meant to be
don't feel guilty but do apologize to her for thinking the worst

wow a cousin talking $hit now that's low...coming from a family member

 

man matt_a that was beautiful, you should write a book, i mean wow! today i went to see her, and man she looks like she was trying to hold back on trying to kiss me and stuff, but at the end we couldnt resist and yea!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

so i'm guessin that ur back to more than being friends

p.s. Matt_a didn't write that, Ralph Marston did

 

^^^oooooo lmfao my bad lmao, but yea i guess we are back

 

grrrrr well hope all the useless advices were helpful

 

o man seriously they did help me abit, not useless at all!!!!

atleast this goes to show me and others that u need to always talk to the bf/gf before u go to n e one else!!!

 

true...

 

well guys, today i was scrolling around myspace and i found a picture that made me finish things off with my girl. basically the picture was my girl kissing another guy on his cheek. i looked at his myspace and he had a picture of her and it said that she was his gf and that he loves her and stuff. i saw her comment him and stuff and she calls him babe. now i called and asked her wtf was up with that and she said that they are friends and that they are just messing around. now idk about u guys but a gf doesnt kiss another guy even if it was a friend. so i got his msn messenger and i messaged him, basically i talked to him nicely, i asked him whats up with him and (lets call her lexus), i asked him if they are bf and gf or are they just real good friends. he told me dont i notice from the pictures and everything that they are bf gf? and he also said that they have been going out for 3 weeks now. i tell him to swear not to talk to her about this and wat im about to say. he promised he wouldnt but i knew he would cuz i didnt care n e more. i told him that me and her have been going out for 3 months now and now i find out that u and her are going out? he told me that he doesnt want to listen to wat im saying cuz he doesnt want to ruin what they "have". and than he stopped talking to me on msn messenger and myspace. so i sent him pictures of me and her together and i hope he got it. i am just tryin to help him out so he wouldnt go thru wat i just did. after i finished talking to him, i get a text message from her saying "why the f*ck are u dealing with my people why cant you just leave **** in my hands. first my cuzin and now him. what you were trying to prevent just happened. do me a favor and delete me and forget about me , i cant deal with this drama. pretend as if u never met me." the texts just kept coming, than she called me so mad, i answered but i stayed quiet, and only said a few words and i laughed here and there with some of the things she said and i guess she got mad and hung up. now basicaly what shes been saying with the texts is that i shouldnt of talked with the cuzin because they are fighting and i shouldnt of talked with this guy "friend" because he likes her and that they both would give me **** so i wouldnt be with her. than she called me a lil kid because im inexperienced with having a gf.
now idk about u guys but im believing wat the guy and the cuzin said because they are teling me the same thing. just 2 days ago i went out with her and she was teasing me with kisses the whole time and she actually made out with me so i was guessing we werent really friends and we got back together. she told me she wanted to go to the movies with me the next day, next day comes and she calls and says she cant go because shes going to the gym with someone. when i messaged the guy he told me that he was sore because of the gym last night. so basically i dont want her n e more even if there was a chance that im wrong. i dont like all this stuff thats happening in this relationship. so im single and i think im staying like this for a while.

 

That was the hardest thing in the world to read, but I did it. She sounds like a real character- do not regret talking to her "bf." She was cruel to you, the least you can do is make it a little harder for her to play other guys too. If I were you and she kept calling me, I'd just end up screaming at her. She wouldn't want to call me back.

Sorry about all you've been through, man, no one deserves it. It sucks to find out that people who you once considered honest are wholly capable of pain-inflicting disappointment.

 

Fishing - just drop it. do as she told u " pretend as if u never met me. "

u have an entire life ahead of you to meet new and more deserving girls. don't worry she is not the only fish in the water and since yr an expert u'll be able to catch many better baits

 

^^ just make sure you use a BIG rod, makes the fishies more interested ;-)

but seriously bro, you dont need her and her bull, dont beat yorself up either, she is the cold heartd, bi polar b*tch. And I dont think I would have kept my cool as well as you did, but stay strong, just remember, "bigger rod, better fishies"

 

lol dont worry guys, im not thinking about it much because i got most of it out when the incident with the cuzin occured lol, but i appreciate the kind words!

u guys are cool! if u have a myspace add me!!!

www.myspace.com/alallama

thnx again