Alright I spent all day trying to figure this out, im extremly frustraited.. Got some sleep so Im gunna try again today..
I hooked up my sound system to my stock deck. I have the wiring, Amplifier, Subwoofers, LOConverter, all that.. Everything Is all wired up, I havfea good ground, and good power. I tested this.. For some reason my remote is not active.. My amp is not lighting up, I have tried 2 different wires, 2 different amps..

If you pick up the deck, and face it away from you, I got the gray wire from the TOP Left socket of the deck. Thats correct? Im not getting any power from that gray wire what so ever.. Can someone shoot me a call or hit me up on aim, im sure you guys probably know the stress im going through I cant drive my car its in peices

Thanks guys.