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Old Aug 30, 2006 | 10:12 PM
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well let's say that italian women tend to pretend a lot of things but for good reasons
cos once their bf's have them in bed they go and try it all over again with another girl

but yes i don't expect anything from anyone
i've taken care of my then-bf (i paid for his education, for his food, etc) so don't take me as an example

i have lived everywhere so i am not part of any specific category
Old Aug 30, 2006 | 10:20 PM
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Originally Posted by tC4italy
well let's say that italian women tend to pretend a lot of things but for good reasons
cos once their bf's have them in bed they go and try it all over again with another girl

but yes i don't expect anything from anyone
i've taken care of my then-bf (i paid for his education, for his food, etc) so don't take me as an example

i have lived everywhere so i am not part of any specific category
I am getting the feeling that there is a language barrier here.

But thats cool.....Im just stating a preference and an obsersvation, thats all.
Old Aug 31, 2006 | 01:28 AM
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Well you keep switchin the meaning.

And no, I know english better than 80% of Americans so i'm positive it's not that.

Possibly the fact that we are "talking" over a pc? That would make more sense....

(btw i'm typsy nm)
Old Aug 31, 2006 | 02:17 AM
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i can't even speak english let alone type it well i can't even spell and my grammer is just the ugliest thing you ever seen
Old Aug 31, 2006 | 01:48 PM
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Originally Posted by tC4italy
Well you keep switchin the meaning.


I keep switching the meaning?

u r crazy.
Old Aug 31, 2006 | 02:09 PM
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Originally Posted by HeathenBrewing
u r crazy.
tell us sometin new :D
Old Aug 31, 2006 | 03:26 PM
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Women. Can't live with 'em, Sheep can't cook.
Old Aug 31, 2006 | 03:43 PM
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last i recall this wasn't a thread meant for throwing low level unoriginal and superficial sexist comments
Old Aug 31, 2006 | 03:57 PM
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this is why most of the topics go from fun to CRAP quicker than our cars can go 1/4 mile.
Old Aug 31, 2006 | 04:15 PM
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Oh come now.

Society tries to teach us to be "politically correct". Men are supposed to now be "sensitive" and "more in touch with their feminine side."

What a hunk of crap. Society is being feminized for no good reason. Women don't want to accept gender roles, and more and more men (like the poor guy who started this thread) are left wondering why they can't get the girl they want with their "nice guyishness".

Why do women insist on feminizing men sociologically, yet tend go horizontal only with the bad boys?

C'mon, guys. Don't buy into the feminization crap. Be men.
Old Aug 31, 2006 | 04:18 PM
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Originally Posted by IceNine
Oh come now.

Society tries to teach us to be "politically correct". Men are supposed to now be "sensitive" and "more in touch with their feminine side."

What a hunk of crap. Society is being feminized for no good reason. Women don't want to accept gender roles, and more and more men (like the poor guy who started this thread) are left wondering why they can't get the girl they want with their "nice guyishness".

Why do women insist on feminizing men sociologically, yet tend go horizontal only with the bad boys?

C'mon, guys. Don't buy into the feminization crap. Be men.

well put sir.
Old Aug 31, 2006 | 04:23 PM
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Originally Posted by IceNine
Why do women insist on feminizing men sociologically, yet tend go horizontal only with the bad boys?
That is a topic in and of itself but a quick stab at it….because they don’t say what they mean. Goes back to my comment abou listening to the way they act and not what they say. They say they want a man who is PC, but go to bed with the "bad boys".

What does that tell you in regards to what women say? Don’t listen to 'em. (as always, I am speaking in general).
Old Aug 31, 2006 | 04:30 PM
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Originally Posted by IceNine
Oh come now.

Society tries to teach us to be "politically correct". Men are supposed to now be "sensitive" and "more in touch with their feminine side."

What a hunk of crap. Society is being feminized for no good reason. Women don't want to accept gender roles, and more and more men (like the poor guy who started this thread) are left wondering why they can't get the girl they want with their "nice guyishness".

Why do women insist on feminizing men sociologically, yet tend go horizontal only with the bad boys?

C'mon, guys. Don't buy into the feminization crap. Be men.

u r totally screwed up

im done on this thread
u can all go figure out yrself what u THINK we want
Old Aug 31, 2006 | 04:36 PM
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Originally Posted by tC4italy
Originally Posted by IceNine
Oh come now.

Society tries to teach us to be "politically correct". Men are supposed to now be "sensitive" and "more in touch with their feminine side."

What a hunk of crap. Society is being feminized for no good reason. Women don't want to accept gender roles, and more and more men (like the poor guy who started this thread) are left wondering why they can't get the girl they want with their "nice guyishness".

Why do women insist on feminizing men sociologically, yet tend go horizontal only with the bad boys?

C'mon, guys. Don't buy into the feminization crap. Be men.

u r totally screwed up

im done on this thread
u can all go figure out yrself what u THINK we want
To read your minds and know you well enough in the relationship so that we know what you're thinking at any given instance in any given situation without you telling, hinting, or prodding to us directly as proof of our deep level of connection, love, and understanding?
Old Aug 31, 2006 | 04:37 PM
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yr talking to the wrong girl here
i am as open and direct as a double edge knife
when i don't like something i say it and i say it firmly

Old Aug 31, 2006 | 04:39 PM
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As screwed up as I am, you're a lot more likely to let me diddle your pooter than soulcracker.

Heathen hit the nail right on the head. Women give out mixed signals all the time. They claim they want one thing, but they go after something different.

To every rule, there are usually exceptions, this one included. But if you're a guy, and you want to have women be attracted to you, you'll score a lot more being an overconfident, arrogant a$$ than a timid "nice guy". The reverse is also true, a nice guy may find a woman who will TRULY appreciate what a nice guy is.

But those women are few and far between, and your hand is only moderately attractive for so long.
Old Aug 31, 2006 | 04:42 PM
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there r middle ground u know?

i like my man to be confident (not overconfident), who can stand his ground, but is polite and generous at the same time

different situations call for a different reaction

and what is the excuse? men r not able to be a lil bit of both because what?

my ex was like that and he's not the most bright person i've met and he managed
Old Aug 31, 2006 | 04:43 PM
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Then why is he your Ex?
Old Aug 31, 2006 | 04:45 PM
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because we had a fight and neither of us put our stubborness down to call the other
Old Aug 31, 2006 | 04:47 PM
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Originally Posted by kanundrum
someone lock this thread plz. b4 it starts going to hell lol.




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